where should I go? xavier or st. louis?

<p>I have narrowed it down to these schools:
St. Louis University
Xavier University</p>

<p>I will give you a list of pros and cons that I have done. As you can see, they are pretty equal lists and I honestly CANNOT decide! Any insights would be appreciated!</p>

<p>Xavier is 3 hours away, St. Louis is 9 hours away from me
I am an only child and my parents are intimidating me with the "you will miss home soooo much if you go far away" guilt test.</p>

<p>I want to do pre-med or physical therapy, I haven't decided, but st. Louis is the only one who offers a physical therapy program. </p>

<p>St Louis has their own medical school if I decide to go into medicine, but Xavier has many options close by too</p>

<p>Xavier is smaller, perhaps more opportunities, but st. Louis has their own med school, which could provide opportunities too</p>

<p>I am in the honors program at Xavier, but didn't apply for st. Louis honors, but I could easily get in their program my second semester next year</p>

<p>st Louis has this social justice community club thing that I really like, and would be involved in but Xavier doesn't have anything like that</p>

<p>I am actually leaning toward st Louis, but my parents are concerned with the safety of the school being urban (but Xavier is urban too) and they also don't want me to go so far away.
please help me decide.</p>