If you’re into EDM, give Boston a more thorough and considered look. There is absolutely an EDM scene there and you’d be able to find “your people.” I did a cursory look and found that Boston has an EDM society, and I know they also have monthly Bootie remix parties.
What are your stats? It’ll be easier to recommend schools in the other places you mentioned if we know what your stats are. Oh, and financial considerations, too. ie: can you afford out of state tuition for UCs, etc.