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<p>You’re doing the right thing, and probably the ONLY one that will help you and your D make the right decision. Do not get too absorbed by the refusal to visit the school. After all, they have been shocked that someone …asked for one as opposed to simply walk in. </p>
<p>Before your visit, try to contact the guidance counselor and let them know you’d interested to (briefly) talk about the experience of juniors at the school, and perhaps get some details about the graduation rates and college destination of the the Class of 2009. </p>
<p>A last recommendation would include to make sure to attend events where seniors participate (athletics, art, etc) and ask the parents. It is amazing how much one learns from parents who no longer feel they have to tell the party line when warming the bleachers! And if there are few or parents in sight, take that into account.</p>