The thing is, so much can happen over the next three years of your life. You could excel in high school and be competitive for, say, MIT. You could not do so well and end up wanting to go to a community college. You could encounter financial issues and have to pick colleges based on that. You could even change what you want to do or where you want to do it, suddenly preferring an LAC over a big state school or vice versa.
Any recommendations you get right now will be practically useless in three years. Have you SEEN how much college costs? And it’s only going up. If that doesn’t stop, many people’s options are going to be severely limited by affordability. And we can’t know anything about that three years in advance.
I guess you somehow feel picked-on because of your age. That’s not it. What is driving the answers you’re getting is a) you have not yet done ANY of the things on which colleges will judge you for admission, and b) it’s impossible to predict the college climate so far in advance. The former is like me saying “How good of a pro basketball player would I be? I don’t play basketball, but I’d still like to know.” The latter similarly requires a crystal ball.