<p>Because I’m not being an arrogant jerk at all. As far as I can tell, “arrogant” and “jerk” are code words for “guy who gets me hot and bothered”. The implication of calling someone arrogant is that because they are so awesome, that is the worst thing that you could come up with to “insult” them. If you were out to express your disapproval with me, there are a hundred actual insults you could hurl my way.</p>