Which top 30ish engineering programs are known for less of a weed-out mentality?

Tufts is a leader in engineering retention. They started studying/addressing the issue and back in the 1990’s. Per a presentation at a STEM conference in Washington DC, as of 2014 they had zero net attrition with 99% of engineering freshman graduating in four years. More than 60% of engineers participate in research and nearly 80% participate in at least one internship. Female enrollment recently hit 50%.

https://www.tms.org/meetings/2014/diversity/downloads/presentations/Abriola.pdf