Kiddo did everything, college apps, financial form, scholarships, school/ class selections, etc you name it, everything on her own and on time. Of course we had to give her with the income/saving info to fill out the financial form but she drove everything to completion. She keeps us in the loop and we talked though stuff but she owns the tasks.
It’s an honor if she asked me to do anything for her. It’s so rare that when she does I jump with joy. She asked me if I could do some research on housing for next year she wants to live in and apartment with her roommates. I am on a mission. If I didn’t do a thorough job on this she won’t ask me for help again lol,
With my HS freshman son, it won’t be that easy. I am sure we will have to do the financial stuff for him. As for the rest he will have to be managed/reminded.