<p>Today is my fourth day of college, and im not having a great time. Im becoming good friends with one of my two roommates, but we are into different things. I like to go out and party, he does not. I am having trouble getting invited to parties. Believe me, I am trying. On my second night, I was walking around and some girls asked if I wanted to go to a party at the lax house with them. I jumped on the opportunity. However, I was kicked out of the group on the way by the guys in it, because they said I screwed up the ratio. The next night, I heard a bunch of guys and girls talking in a room next to me, so i went in and chilled with them for a bit. One of the girls told me they might go to a party later and that they would text me when they did. However, I never got a text. I know they went, however, cause I heard them talking about it this morning. I dont get it. All around the school people are inviting eachother to parties. Im trying my best, but its not working. What am I doing wrong? I had lots of friends in high school, so I cant be THAT socially awkward. Will it get better with time? Thanks!</p>
<p>Do you drink alcohol?
Funny thing is that I don’t and maybe that’s why I don’t get invited to every party haha 
Anyways, I don’t completely understand the party atmosphere. The conversations get really nice, but people doing all these crazy things just doesn’t really make sense in my mind. ~Getting to play video/board games at a party (in which some don’t have) is the fun part and some say they aren’t needed when I say I can bring them.</p>
<p>Just an anecdote on probably why I don’t get invited to every party. You do what is fun for you.</p>
<p>It’s only your first week of college- you have a lot of people left to meet. Just keep talking to people and going to events, group meetings, etc. It’ll come. Once you are “in” a group, you’ll have people to party with all the time.</p>
<p>Keep at it!</p>