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I don't want to debate (the original topic) any more, and alluded to such in my own post; you need not repeat it again for the purpose of being snide. And, no, I do not enjoy this...
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<p>But yet you keep coming back. If you REALLY didn't enjoy this, you would have left the thread a long time ago. </p>
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In fact, I WELCOME debate. That is what the board is for. </p>
<p>Not exactly. It's here to share information; sometimes a debate comes along with that information, but the purpose is not the debate itself. There's something to be said for arguing succinctly; you've got the "argue" part, but not the "succinct." (IMHO)
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<p>Oh really? Where does it say in the terms of service that I have to be 'succinct'? I believe I have the freedom of speech to discuss a point the way that I want to discuss it. If I choose too much quantity (in your opinion) and that makes my arguments unconvincing, that's my problem, not yours. It has nothing to do with you. Why are you so interested in helping me shape my arguments anyway?</p>
<p>Besides, I used to try 'succinct' arguments. Guess what happened? People began to complain that I was not being detailed enough! So I think I will happily stick with my style. I've learned that you can't please anybody. No matter what you do, somebody is going to complain that you are either too brief or too verbose. Since you can't please everybody, I think I am just going to write the way that I want to write, and let the chips fall where they may.</p>
<p>Besides, like I said, just because I write a lot doesn't mean that you have to read it all. I am not forcing anybody to read my posts. So why complain about it? If it's too long for you to read, fine, don't read it. </p>
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Stop the presses and hold the phone! O.M.G. By golly, someone's trying to influence someone else!! Sakky, what, exactly are you doing by entering all these "debates" on this site? You must admit, unless your sole purpose is to read yourself in print, that you hope to help influence someone's choice or opinion. Influencing someone's life (e.g. school/major choice) has a LOT more potential for harm than a single course grade. If you're so worried about offering "unsolicited opinions," then I seriously suggest you hold your debates for people who specifically PM you.
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<p>The problem is with UNDUE influence. I, of course, am attempting to influence opinions here. So are you. So is aibarr. So is everybody else. That is what the discussion forum is for, and that is an appropriate use of the board.</p>
<p>The situation with aibarr attempting to fail the student is rather different, you must agree. Did the prof ASK for her opinion? If so, that would be fine. But if not, then why is she automatically attempting to INJECT her opinion? That is not her call, as a TA, to make. </p>
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But she was a course TA. What was and was-not her business is up to the working relationship between her and the course's professor, not for you to decide. Based on previous statements, she obviously knew the student's eventual grade, so barring any covert break-ins to the professor's office or the registrar's office, the professor SHARED that information with her -- thus it was her business.
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<p>And I believe that attempting to influence final grades is questionable behavior. Look, I've been a TA too. It was also my job to grade papers and labs. And I also knew what all of the final grades were. But it wasn't my job to attempt to INFLUENCE who got what final grade. After all, think about what that would mean. It would mean that I might feel pressure to get A's for all of my friends. If there is a girl in the class that I like, then maybe I'll just try to get an A for her just because I like her. The pressure works the other way too - my friends might pressure me to use my influence to get them high grades. And if I just happen to not like somebody personally, I'll "punish" them by trying to get the prof to fail them. Don't you see the smarminess in this? </p>
<p>That's why I believe we are better off when TA's don't attempt to influence final grades. That is why I disagree with what aibarr did. The job of the TA is to act as a purely mechanical grader. Not to attempt to influence the final grading by saying that "so and so" is great or is bad, so he deserves a higher or lower grade. Otherwise, you will inevitably end up with the situation where a TA just tries to get A's for all his friends. </p>
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And what makes you think her opinion was either, A) unsolicited, or B) bad? You're making these assumptions and slandering an individual.
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<p>Well, did she SAY it was solicited? As far as I can tell, it was not. And definitely, the opinion she gave was bad. After all, she did say that the guy should have failed. How is that not a bad opinion? </p>
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I don't find this fun. I don't find this funny.
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<p>Then, like I said, don't participate. </p>
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I don't enjoy this at all. This is not a debate, this is a rip-aibarr-for-being-a-crappy-TA-and-an-even-worse-person diatribe, perpetrated by sakky.
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<p>I didn't say that you were a crappy TA. I'm sure you were fine. I said that I disagree with that move you made. And so have others on this thread. I have no problem with people disagreeing with me, as many people have. That is what a discussion board is all about. We are not all supposed to agree on everything. If we did, then there would be little point in having a board. </p>
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Quit attacking me, and back off. I sincerely hope you'll apologize for your words against me. You have no idea what the situation that I was in entailed, and even though I did give further explanation, you seem to have disregarded that entirely and have decided to use my personal example against me, to slander me, as wrprice said, and to launch a four-page debate on what a morally corrupt and retribution-hungry monster of a teaching assistant I was.
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<p>If you consider this a personal attack, go through just this thread, and you will see that I have been attacked in a far worse manner. I am not asking for anybody to apologize. </p>
<p>I simply disagree with what you did. Nothing more, nothing less. When did I ever say that you were a 'crappy' TA or that you were morally corrupt? I simply don't think TA's, unless asked, should attempt to influence the final assignment of letter grades. That's all. </p>
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I'm a TA. If I feel a student is not putting forth any effort, I have no problem recommending a failing grade to the professor. (That and 60% of the grades are in my hands anyways). So what? Sue me
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<p>And I disagree with you too. Like I said, I believe TA's should be impartial and mechanical scorers. Otherwise, you end up with the situation where a TA begins to recommend A's to all of his friends just beause they are his friends. If a TA doesn't like somebody personally, he'll just recommend him for an F just because he doesn't like him. Do you see the slippery slope here?</p>