<p>Hey, just because your relationships are more "normal" doesn't mean mine are any less valid. Love is a beautiful thing, and this guy might just be the love of my life. If you don't think I should be hanging around with him, just say so. You don't have to call our love "stupid." In fact, the guy's damn smart. Last week he made a joke about Klein bottles. He's just so hard to figure out sometimes. And he does a lot of crazy things.</p>
<p>Sorry if I'm getting defensive.</p>
<p>I'm Sick Of These Mother *<strong><em>ing Snakes In My Mother *</em></strong>ing Water</p>
<p>wow, they changed my all caps post to uncapp'd</p>
<p>caps is cruise control for awesome</p>
<p>Yeah, I'm starting to think I should just drink bottled water and fruit juice.</p>
<p>"Even when he's not around, I always think of that time we were at the water and he tried to drown me, or that time I was choking and all he asked was whether I "wanted my possessions identified." I mean, what a stupid question. I'M DYING HERE, YOU IDIOT."</p>
<p>he tried to kill you. get out of the relationship</p>
<p>LOL</p>
<p>cough dramatic bs cough</p>
<p>If this is serious, you don't need CC. You need real help.</p>
<p>If you are really sincere in what you have said, I would advise you to pull out of this relationship ASAP. If he's hits you, drowns you, puts snakes in your water, and steals your money and clothes, then you oughta report him to a police or something.
Only if love is mutual will a relationship work.</p>
<p>Fizix, this is an incredibly destructive relationship. Obviously, you can't choose who you fall in love with... but just read your posts. He tried to kill you. He hits you. He steals your money. The fact that you defend (or excuse) his actions demonstrates just how terrible things are. He doesn't do "a lot of crazy things," he sounds as if he is genuinely crazy. The fact that he derives such pleasure from abusing you is terrifying to me.
Perhaps he's very intelligent. Perhaps he sometimes makes you feel 'special.' But, he also sounds incredibly twisted.
In fact, I think that I incorrectly described your relationship as destructive, as that implies that he's affected negatively as well. No, I think that your relationship is more like parasitism- he's feeding on your mental, emotional, and physical wellness in order to feel better himself. He's thriving while you flounder.
I do believe that you might love him. But, please break away from him. He's poison, and you're condemning yourself to more pain if you allow him to manipulate you.</p>
<p>I hope this wasn't a joke, because this really worries me.</p>
<p>what do you mean "you tried to score with him?" </p>
<p>i'm confused... like .. "have intimacy?" or " hit him?"</p>
<p>i don't know bout the killing part for it wasn't explained too well. </p>
<p>but i understand the other parts. it is just like the relationship that i had that just ended not 10 minutes ago. </p>
<p>Don't kill urself. i'm not one of those ppl who just says that. I seriously have thought about it myself just a week ago. </p>
<p>in the end though, just repeat this out loud "He's (she's in my case) JUST NOT INTO ME" " HE (SHE) DOES NOT CARE" "I DESERVE BETTER AND THERE WILL BE BETTER OUT THERE"</p>
<p>I hope that helped. </p>
<p>i feel faint. this time i can't go back to her again. each time im alway the one that takes the blame. i can't believe this relationship changed so much...</p>
<p>for the love of god, people, he put snakes in her water? that line alone...</p>
<p>lol. I could be wrong, but I think everything fizix2's said so far has been a reference to the computer game nethack
like "do you want your possessions identified"
and drowning/choking is a very annoying + common cause of death
it's actually quite clever if you play...nethack as his lover
just a heads-up</p>
<p>AHAHAH that is funny because I know fizix has mentioned nethack before.</p>
<p>this is funny because there's 2 full pages of people giving her advice haha</p>
<p>You guys are idiots lol...</p>
<p>Aaarrghhh! I knew it had to be a joke:
"I hope this wasn't a joke"</p>
<p>The fact that Fizix posted this thread made me wary from the very beginning... I nearly deleted my response because I was 90% sure that this was some sort of clever prank!</p>
<p>Congratulations, Fizix... I'm sure you had a good laugh over my response =D</p>
<p>lol - it would have been pretty interesting if someone who pretended to be that boy came over to reply to this thread ^_^</p>
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<p>:D:D:D:D:D
ding-ding-ding</p>
<p>Thanks to all the people who tried to give me advice though, you guys are all really nice :)</p>
<p>And to think I actually believed this for a short time...</p>
<p>But I started to doubt it when I remembered that fizix is going to Caltech and seemed very...normal when giving me some (very helpful, thank you) advice on research in high school.</p>
<p>That and the fact that someone who makes lots of nerdy physics (and topology, I see) is AND does this stuff is likely to be a nerdy reference (not exist).</p>
<p>nerdy physics references, I mean</p>
<p>ommitted a word</p>