<p>You just gotta meet the right people and approach it correctly. It probably isn’t best to just ask people if they are interested in you… Meet guys… get to know them. There really isn’t a race to “meet someone” let it happen on its own</p>
<p>post or send me a pic and ill tell u if ur hot</p>
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<p>I think I may have found the problem.</p>
<p>Anywho, some quick tips</p>
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<li>Smile more</li>
<li>Make more eye contact</li>
<li>Hit the gym at the least 3 times a week</li>
<li>Wear makeup - that eye sh1t aka eyeliner seems particularly attractive/ useful IMO</li>
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<p>Also, thinking from a girl’s perspective and line of attack (usually I’m just talking amongst guys about how to get a girl) - wear a padded bra that makes your boobs look bigger. Hey, I would probably do that if I was a girl. Sure, it may be sort of false advertising, but you probably already ensnared the man’s mind once he’s got you undressed anyway. You’re welcome. ;P</p>
<p>it IS ok to NOT have a boyfriend u no. I think your lucky because you get to keep an independent life.</p>
<p>TA, you were part of the “not complaining about life on College Life” crew for so long</p>
<p>what happened? :(</p>
<p>Must be that time of the month.</p>
<p>Rush after the nerds/geeks. They can be fun, entertaining, but they surely are intelligent (that counts on intimacy too) and will never run out of subjects to talk about. Moreover, depending on the situation they can find it romantic to stay awake until 3AM helping with your calculus III exam.</p>
<p>aha yea nerds are fun and entertaining alright. They may not run out of subjects to talk about but that doesn’t matter if those subjects put you to sleep.</p>
<p>You’re fat.</p>
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<p>I forgot to take my medication yesterday lol.</p>
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<p>Yeah, and that too.</p>
<p>because ur ugly</p>
<p>Actually, a guy I was interested in was considered nerdy. I have many nerdy friends. I don’t know, if I work very damn hard to change myself and nothing still happens, I really will just take whatever is available :/</p>
<p>It sucks to be ugly.</p>
<p>Perhaps you are just too pessimistic. Optimism is attractive in my opinion… and by trying to look on the bright side you will likely be a whole lot happier yourself. Don’t think of yourself as ugly, socially inept and in need of changing. Instead, try to be happy with who you are, but still work on yourself. I think if you change your general attitude about life (which, I could be wrong here, but it seems to be pretty grim) you will find yourself attracting a whole lot more people–friends and potentially boyfriends alike. </p>
<p>Good luck!</p>
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<p>I am not as picky as everyone here is saying. I am just tired of attracting creeps and emotionally ■■■■■■■■ people. That’s all I attract and I wonder why I’m a magnet for such crap.</p>
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<p>Thanks. I don’t quite know how my demeanor is like, but thank you very much.</p>
<p>If one (or a couple?) guys burned you because they were creepy or whatever that says nothing about who you attract. Don’t get into the mindset that every guy who approaches you is gonna be as bad as the last. Smile more, find something sexy in guys who talk to you and just basically have a good time and flirt and it will all come together.</p>
<p>I consider myself a guy that and alot of girls have wanted (and still want).<br>
So this is from experience and quite profound. OP listen up.</p>
<p>The “guys you (and most girls) want” are typically funny and arrogant. Im SURE you aren’t flattered by a guy who sucks ups to you and lets you control him. Good looking yes, but (i sure hope) we all know by now that girls are predominately attracted to a guy’s (confident, decisive, and strong) personality. Anyhow, we KNOW you want us. And we run from it. Guys like us LOVE running from the chase. We get a hoard of girls to “want” us. Some guys will even play the jealousy game (i did). Girls are evolutionary wired to deem a guy more attractive if she sees girls on him 24/7. This can be so powerful. Ok. so we’re at a fork in the road. listen carefully.</p>
<p>In a guy’s eyes, most girls fall under 3 categories-
- bangin.
- ehh theres better.
- brown paper bag </p>
<p>OP, if you fall into #1, then my suggestion is that you pretend to lose all interest. If you are truly as hot as megan fox, then even a guy like me will (subtly) give hints that we’re interested.<br>
OP, if you fall into #2, then I suggest you adopt a more “playful” attitude when you’re with him. I hope you know what that means.<br>
OP, if you fall into #2, then I suggest you play the lottery so you can win and buy him a Lamborghini. guys are suckers for cars. Otherwise, “the guys you want” probably dont want you.</p>
<p>hope that helped ever so slightly.</p>
<p>^Don’t listen to him, he’s a well known idiot. Guys don’t love running from the chase, they run into it. We are much less flirty and teasy than girls, we know who we want the second we lay eyes on them and there is literally a ladder (if you will) that we place girls on accorinding to our desirability to have them and you are placed on the ladder the second we see you. There is no changing your spot even if we get to know you better so my advise to you would be to move on and give your attention to someone else. If one of those guys seems to like you from the start, go after him.</p>
<p>Interesting. I posted a pic on Hot or Not and some handsome men showed interest in me. One of them was even buff. So I guess I’m not ugly after all! Yay!</p>
<p>^low self esteem, insecure, and frankly a bit pathetic(that’s why you don’t get the guys you want)</p>
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<p>No sir, I would not agree.</p>
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<p>Hell no sir.</p>