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<p>oh the problem just seemed to be that you don’t feel valued enough for what you do. Which doesn’t seem very out of the ordinary to me - it’s a common human longing to feel valued. </p>
<p>friendships are just another way in which one can feel valued (success at college doesn’t seem to be achieving that for you very well - at least not in this one class). Of course there are many other avenues too :). That was just a salient example that came to mind (and also I happened to remember this long fruitless exchange we had on some other thread, where you were distraught over me comparing homelessness to friendlessness, so I couldn’t help but reference that :p).</p>