<p>Your situation is one that many people ought to consider. A $150K salary seems like a lot, but not when you take that $150K job in the Silicon Valley or in the DC-MD-VA area. A $150K salary is not enough to live a lifestyle that includes an $800K home, along with the state income taxes charged in California or the DC-MD-VA area. Your family knows this very well, as you don’t even own a car. It is a set of lifestyle choices that does not make sense, and not even the quality of the public school system is worth it.</p>
<p>A typical family earning that income, with only federal taxes, SSN, Medicare and other pre-tax withdrawals, is probably taking home 70% of the gross salary. Deduct another 5% of gross to account for state income taxes, so that family is bringing home 65% of $150K, or $97500. Now add on the mortgage for an $800K house (hopefully purchased before it became valued at $800K, let’s say for argument’s sake, a mortgage for $400K, maybe $2000 a month for housing payment only), and now that take-home is reduced by another $24K a year. So life in the DC-MD-VA is now being financed with $73500. Many people around the country would say that is still a lot of money. Of course, they are the ones who don’t earn more than $73500 a year, and don’t experience having 35% of their gross salary lopped off the top by income taxes, so it is easy for them to have that opinion.</p>
<p>Now, I could make $73500 work for my family, living in an expensive area, but it takes living a lifestyle sans any thing fancy and impressive - no competing with the Jones. And I did do this for many years in the Silicon Valley, and was able to do so since I purchased my home before the last boom, and, so at least did not have to choose between $800K houses. But once I realized that my family’s next move into a house that fit us - not a fancy house, but just a basic house with more room - was going to be a half million dollar decision, that was it. No more. Besides, the commute was just not worth it, and there was no getting around having a car there.</p>
<p>So we left. And we had a choice to go to DC-Maryland-VA or we could go to Florida. The DC-MD-VA job offered $50K more a year than the Florida job. But once the numbers were crunched, life in the DC-MD-VA was going to be worse - same high housing, same high state income taxes, same awful commute, and now we would not even get the benefit of great California weather. Florida was a no-brainer - no state income tax, lower housing, no commute. A move to DC-MD-VA would have been to the benefit of the federal government and the state government, who would have gotten most of that $50K difference in salary.</p>
<p>Families have to make choices, and while your family is probably not in a position to make any changes now, it is something for you to consider as you head to college and make decisions on where to accept a job offer. Life is all about choices, and the lure of a high salary needs to be considered in light of where you have to live in order to get that salary. It may not make you feel any better knowing that, even if your family earned half of what they do, you would still not qualify for any free financial aid, but that is the case, so you are not really losing out on something just because you live in DC and your parents earn $150K a year. All you qualify for, as far as federal financial aid, is that $5500 a year your freshman year. Hopefully you can get some merit aid, because for kids in families like yours (which includes my kids, too), your path to college is not going to be financed by the taxpayers. The sad irony is that your parents are financing some other kid’s college education, via their disproportionately high tax dollars, while they cannot help you significantly with yours. </p>