just read this whole thread. I’m not a 1% nor near it. My sister is. And to answer the original OP, she does feel rich actually.
but here are some reasons why she feels rich: she’s single and has no kids. She has worked HARD, and had some luck involved with where she worked. (I visited her office once, and her co-workers all had dogs in their offices because they had really really long hours and didnt go home much) She owns in a few HCOL areas, but she doesnt need much space. She travels where ever she wants, when ever. She’s kind to her extended family.
So, my guess why she’s a 1%'er and feels rich, where as others don’t, is because of: Kids. She’s never once complained about money. But if I were to throw my 4 kids on her, I’m guessing things would be harder because so much of our lives goes to supporting our kids in all areas. Kids are money suckers. they are not cheaper by the dozen. But, they are a blessing. (Her life has many many blessings in it too; just different ones.) Just saying, kids are expensive, and i can sort of understand the feelings of those 1%er’s in HCOL areas not feeling rich.