<p>mtngoat1, I think your worries are misguided somewhat. Obviously, a quality program that will nurture your talent is important. However, where that program resides is much less important. You are entering a talent related field, and that’s what you will be judged by - your talent. Thus, your concern should be attending where your talents are best served. If that is at a prestifious school and you can get in, pay for it, etc. then great. However, if it’s somplace else, then you belong there. </p>
<p>I wouldn’t worry about the rest.</p>