Word of advice for people interested in a college- always look at reasons not to go there. I sure wish I had.
Anyway, here are my reasons to not attend Carnegie Mellon, based off my recently completed undergrad education.
First, a short bio that might help with perspective. I majored in a STEM subject.
The people. CMU is a magnet for nerdy/weird people, not much of a surprise there. But what I didn’t expect is that some of these people are so antisocial and awkward that it’s hard to be friends with them. Many people come off as unfriendly and aloof. It’s a common experience to meet someone and have them not acknowledge you when you walk past them later, which is much different than I’ve experienced anywhere else. Social life for many people is nonexistent. And I hate to bring it up, but the ugliness is real. You don’t want to be spending the prime of your life surrounded by people who look like zombies from the walking dead. I didn’t think I cared about this at first, but it’s human nature.
The environment. CMU is located in Pittsburgh, which has the cloudiest weather outside Seattle in the US. In college, you spend a lot of time outside/walking, which amplifies this factor. Pittsburgh itself is a rusting old city, and while some parts of it may be nice, CMU’s campus and surroundings definitely aren’t uplifting.
The workload. Its every bit as horrible as you’d expect. Even if you can spare one weekend evening not studying, chances are your friends will be busy cramming for the next midterm. Midterms are not actually once a semester. They’re every few weeks. I had a semester with a major exam every week. Sometimes you neglect studying for one thing to study for something else. And in the end, it’s not really worth it because you won’t ever use what you learned. Also, I will have to take out loans to pay for med school because my college fund was squandered on this place. Maybe, possibly, if you are in CS or ECE, the name of the school may be enough motivation to take the plunge, but anything else, forget about it!
The general vibe. It’s toxic. People are hypercompetitive. The averages in classes are astronomically high. Everyday you look on social media and see your friends at other colleges having the time of their lives. Ultimately, your sacrifices are mostly in vain, as you may land a similar job as someone from anywhere else that worked 1/10th of what you did and probably paid a whole lot less too. Far worse is the prospect that you’ll burn out and do even worse than if you hadn’t gone here in the first place. Even if you think you’re tough like I did, don’t risk it. People graduate CMU having regressed socially, eyesight degraded, sleep deprived, and generally unhealthy. People sit and study for so long, many people walk in weird shuffles or bounces. Don’t believe me? Take a tour of the campus.
Sure, there’s people who have different experiences here. From what I can tell, many of them are trying to make the best of a bad situation- the justification of effort mentality. Instead of accepting the reality that they paid hundreds of thousands of dollars and years of their life to suffer in the depressing hole of CMU, they change their idea of CMU and say, “hey, it’s not so bad! I’m having a good time here!”. I’ve even given in to this mindless coping mechanism when prospective students stop me on campus. Some people, of course, are super-geniuses and actually thrive in extreme conditions. But from my experience, most people at CMU are hard working, not brilliant like you would find at an ivy league or MIT. That’s why they’re not there, and it’s also why CMU is always nobody’s first choice school.
Please, don’t make the same mistake as I did. If you are accepted to this school, go visit the campus. Do your research. Try asking trusted students/alums their most honest opinions.