Why rejection isn't the end of the world

<p>I’m a junior at Penn. My little brother is waiting for his Princeton letter just as many of you are. Needless to say, he is freaking out, and, unless you are a Buddhist or heavily medicated, you probably are freaking out about your own admissions prospects too. I wrote him a letter, but it more or less can apply to all of you as well…I’ve changed the names from Princeton to Penn</p>

<hr>

<p>If you were accepted, you have my most sincere congratulations. I need not restate the virtues of the University of Pennsylvania; its institutional excellence cannot be denied, and I look forward to sharing this great university with you</p>

<p>If you were deferred or rejected (debatable which one is actually worse), don’t sweat it, because elite admissions at this level is at best a witches’ brew of nepotism, college ranking/admissions game theory run amok, and random luck. </p>

<p>As [unimpressive Penn alumni you’ve surely met] have made painfully clear, association with Penn does not automatically equate intelligence, success, or attractive offspring. In fact, it probably makes it worse because you can just sit around thinking how great you were for getting into Penn which doesn’t exactly motivate you to go out there and work like your life (and even more importantly, your ego) depends on it. It may very well be a blessing in disguise.</p>

<p>It is without a doubt true that a Penn undergraduate education has more elitist cachet than, say, a Cornell or Georgetown undergraduate education. However, it is also undeniably true that the actual quality of the education is identical (the real discrepancies come into play at the grad school level). At academic conferences I attended in Korea (the mother of all prestige-whore countries) the scholars and students of the top universities were treated no better than the scholars at <em>gasp</em> state schools! At the HPAIR conference in Tokyo I have seen Ivy League professors speak; I have read their written work inside and outside of the classroom and they are all no more brilliant than a UVA professor. Logically, unless among 6 billion people humanity cannot produce a few dozen excellent scholars of a subject, there will be enough excellent professors among ALL the top American schools. A Penn diploma mounted on your wall may draw a few more 'ooh’s and 'aah’s than an NYU diploma, but the quality of the education that much-heralded piece of paper represents is going to be identical…</p>

<p>Here’s a lovely story: A Penn Glee Club alum who went to Harvard for undergrad and Penn for grad school was ultimately denied a job and belittled by a Drexel (shudder) alum. There are thousands of alumni of crappy schools all over the world who happened to be successful in spite of their non-prestigious educations, and are just itching to get some revenge on those damn snooty Ivy League brats they’ve held a grudge against for years.</p>

<p>So relax, take a deep breath, and remember that the very fact that you were smart enough, talented enough, and brave enough to apply to Penn in the first place is already a sign of your greatness and your ample capacity to succeed in this world, regardless of whether you cheer the Red & Blue.</p>

<p>Best of luck to all of you</p>

<p>now, who is this [unimpressive Penn alumni you've surely met]?</p>

<p>Thanks Johnny, for this post and all the humorous remarks and advices you've given us : o</p>

<p>Well in the original letter that was where I listed unimpressive Princeton alumni my little brother and I have met. But in theory I'm sure it's possible for an unimpressive Penn alumnus to exist</p>

<p>only on Planet Penn does a Penn Diploma have more elitist cache than one from Cornell...LOL</p>

<p>Having said that, I think your letter is spot on. It's good advice for those nervously waiting their decsions...</p>

<p>I'd say more North America than Planet Penn...</p>

<p>maybe in the east coast, Penn may be more "prestigious" In the midwest and west coast, Cornell has more prestige, as much as I like Penn, I can't unequivably say its more prestigious than cornell, wharton is different.</p>

<p>Penn applications from the west coast were up 20% this year.</p>

<p>I hear the weather in Ithaca is lovely this time of year...</p>

<p>I'm tempted to say "I hear the crime in Philly is wonderful all the year round" but I wouldn't want to go there...whoops I just did...anyhow I won't dis your place if you don't dis mine...although the score of this year's game at Franklin Field did say a lot...were you (Johnny K) the guy in the full blue and red body paint?</p>

<p>Actually there was an article in the DP saying that Crime at Penn has decreased (though Crime has increased somewhat at Drexel)</p>

<p>Cornell's a good school too. It's really pointless to argue about school x vs school y on a daily basis.</p>

<p>Peace Flavian</p>

<p>yeah it is pointless especially since i dont have a chance at either school.</p>

<p>on another note: WOOT! snow day!!! well not really we went to 12:40, but i did miss 2 classes i had impossible tests in.</p>

<p>Crime comes with the territory...of living in civilization and its cultural, educational, working, commercial, and recreational opportunities that is.</p>

<p>Cornell may win football, but Penn wins at undergraduate education. Fair trade, I think.</p>

<p>Cornell is at the bottom of the Ivy League, (a position Penn used to know quite well). Its acceptance rate is the highest by a significant margin and it is the only Ivy with a yield rate below 50%. Less than half the people who get offered admission choose to go.</p>

<p>I'd be curious to see the cross-admit splits between the two schools</p>

<p>Peace to you too Johnny K!</p>

<p>Tis the season...</p>

<p>so JohnnyK...what was the verdict on your bro's application?</p>

<p>Accepted into Princeton. Hooray!</p>

<p>I'd still rather be at Penn, though. Picking and choosing from Wharton courses while being in the college is too great an opportunity to pass up. Furthermore Princeton has no Korean studies program and that's not only not cool, but really kind of shameful.</p>

<p>Congrats to him...that's awesome!</p>

<p>JohnnyK, your household must be really awkward during football season...</p>

<p>I don't know how anyone can say Cornell is more prestigious than Penn.</p>

<p>neither do I</p>

<p>my princeton interviewers were really impressive (i was interviewed by 3 interviewers at a time). and they said CONGRATULATIONS to my dad who was waiting at the interview room's door (i still remember his broadest smile ever that day.). but i was rejected and now i can't be more happy with penn.</p>

<p>who cares? anything can happen.
i was rejected by harvard, yale, cornell, princeton, mit (which i wholeheartedly wanted to go to), wustl (deferred and rejected ED). and now i'm glad i was not admitted to those places. things will always turn out their best at the end.</p>