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Also, expanding on wheelers comment about the second class saying there are two kinds of women at the academy "b****** and hoes" it needs to be emphasized that not all sexual harrassment comes from the males. i would estimate that up to like 30% or sexual harrassing (is that word) comments come from females referring to other females. there is a HUGE issue of jealousy and competition here at the academy. some girls get angry if you try to hang out with the same group of guys they do.
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<p>Wow. THAT I'd never heard of. Interesting...</p>
<p>Oh, and I NEVER heard another mid use the "two kinds of women" comment. I'd have handed him his ass for it, because I was friends with quite a few of those he would have been disparaging.</p>
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ok next topic, dating a midshipman. i know that the alumni are going to tell people DONT DATE ANOTHER MIDSHIPMAN!! haah but the fact is about 80% of women that go to the academy end up marrying another mid.
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<p>I'll give you my reasoning for this. It's worth precisely what you paid for it.</p>
<p>There is an old saying (edited, of course), "Don't excrete where you eat". Truer words were never spoken, especially in the civilian world.</p>
<p>I found this out the VERY, VERY, HARD WAY, and not at USNA. Yes, it's true Mids date each other, and there's really nothing wrong with that (I did it, too, believe it or not), but it brings a whole pile of risks (mostly emotional, but they can become professional) that you need to consider.</p>
<p>I will acknowledge that my experience (which is fairly recent, BTW) may have me jaded, and that my means of dealing with the possibility of it happening again is simply to recoil from it and recommend the same to anyone who will listen, but the fact remains that these folks are locked together for extended periods, going through things only others going through them can understand, and that makes matches a natural thing. They just need to know what can go wrong if it doesn't work, and act accordingly.</p>
<p>There was more than one young lady at USNA that I would have loved to date seriously, but I was very, very shy back then (now I just don't give a damn anymore, one way or the other). All previous posts aside, and all other things being equal, I'd pick a USXA girl over a Podunk U girl any day of the week and three times on Tuesday.</p>