<p>Well when I was younger I had bad teeth and LOTS of acne, so as you can guess I wasn't that big of a hit with the ladies. Then in my sophomore year of highschool a lot of personal problems came up with my family, which led to me becoming homeschooled(accredited online) During this time my teeth have been fixed, I pretty much got rid of all my acne and I worked out to deal with my stress. I now have much better self esteem thanks to all of this also...so basically I just want to know if I will have an easier time getting a girlfriend this time around...and let me just set the record straight now, I'm not going to college to find a girlfriend it would just be nice to finally have one that's all..</p>
<p>ahh i really hope you get a girlfriend :). Just work on being very kind and caring. Girls love nice guys and gentlemen. I think that its great that you fixed up your appearance but people should like you for who you are, not what you look like. Good luck</p>
<p>Cole:</p>
<p>Be patient. I was pretty lame with girls until I attained age 23. Yet over the course of my life, I have dated a number of gorgeous girls.</p>
<p>In the meantime, I would use my spare time productively, such as by working out, so you will be in great shape, and maximize your physical presentation.</p>
<p>You might also be sure you are dressed in a sharp manner.</p>
<p>Always try and look good, because you never know whether that will be the day you meet someone nice.</p>
<p>Also, every guy has a different timeframe. My son is very good looking, but as far as I know, he has never even kissed a girl, and he is in the 12th grade. And I don’t think I kissed a girl until the 12th grade either.</p>
<p>Again, be patient.</p>
<p>I’ve found that when I am not actively seeking a girlfriend is when I seem to get into my good relationships, don’t rush things.</p>
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<p>Debatable. I’d more so say girls love funny and confident guys.</p>
<p>ya. being too nice won’t get you very far with a girl. nice guys are boring.</p>
<p>nice guys finish last… it’s a true story bro.</p>
<p>that’s not to say that girls are attracted to jackasses, just throwing it out there</p>
<p>I’ll be your girlfriend. You can call me Sally.</p>
<p>The good thing about first girlfriends (for those nice guy/non players) is that after the first, it gets easier…</p>
<p>Many nice girls are drawn to bad boys …maybe they want to fix them .</p>
<p>although that’s what you hear, it makes no freaking sense…</p>
<p>“Many nice girls are drawn to bad boys …maybe they want to fix them”</p>
<p>Which everyone should know is not going to happen…and then they adopt the whole “all guys are jerks” stance.</p>
<p>I am very turned-off by jerks. Be yourself, even if you are awkward or clutzy or something. I like when a guy knows his flaws and can joke about them and accept them.</p>
<p>Dont worry about it man, you are still young and you have plenty of time.</p>
<p>I have basically given up on ever finding someone. I am one of those nice, serious guys who plans for the future. a.k.a. I am a huge turn off to all girls</p>
<p>^I’m a nice, serious guy that plans for the future…I am having no issues with turning girls off. You must not be looking in the right places or with the right girls.</p>
<p>Nah, everyone likes to blame the other sex when they can’t find someone compatible with them. “Girls don’t like nice guys”; “All guys are jerks.” No, you had a bad experience(s) and choose to label an entire demographic based on the experience(s). Move on.</p>
<p>@Drew: lol, I am surrounded by all types of girls and none of them are even interested. It’s ok though, some people are just meant to be single. Like the old saying goes, you can’t have everything you want. Even if that thing is love</p>
<p>I think I can see why you’re striking out…</p>
<p>Yea because you can tell sooooooo much from reading posts on an internet forum. lol</p>