<p>“Girls don’t like me I’m not the type for anyone mehmehmeh.” Show a little confidence.</p>
<p>Girls aren’t attracted to assho1es. They’re attracted to nice guys who have the capacity to be assho1es–alphas. In the wild (hah), women sought security in a mate. Who’s attracted to a weak, wishy-washy, depressed person? No girl I know.</p>
<p>Fact is, anyone can be nice. But to truly have the capacity to be mean, you gotta have the force to back it up. Remember McFly from Back to the Future? He only got the girl after he clocked Biff in the face. Before that, he was a weakling, but he toughened up and got his “alpha” on! (He technically had his son from 30 years later come back in time to help him but, y’know, details…) Why does such a tale feel so familiar? Because it is.</p>
<p>‘Nother thing. Guys and girls approach dating and relationships very differently. A girl can say a guy is “cute” and never even dream of having sex with him. When a guy says that a girl is cute, he means he wants it and he wants it bad. Just sayin’</p>
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<p>Well according to all of this I shouldn’t have too much of a problem. I guess I’m a pretty nice guy but can go into “alpha” mode as you all are calling it…I’m not very tall (like 5’10) but I’m very muscular 195 lbs 11.4% body fat last time I checked. I also practice Muay Thai and bjj and won’t take **** from anyone. I’m now confident in my self like I stated earlier I just haven’t been in a position to meet many girls since my “transformation” so to say and that’s where college comes in :D</p>
<p>Very nice post Wiscongene, probably the closest to being right out of what has been said by everyone in this thread.</p>
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<p>Girls like confident guys, but they also like them to be down to earth. You just sound like a wanker who is trying too hard by saying ‘I won’t take **** from anyone’. That’s not alpha, that’s just a tosser.</p>
<p>ya having a lot of muscles or even having a good face isn’t as important as personality.</p>
<p>DO NOT READ WISCONGENE’S POST ON THIS PAGE UNLESS YOU DO NOT MIND BACK TO THE FUTURE MOVIE SPOILERS!</p>
<p>I thought that posting spoilers with no warning was against the terms of service. You just ruined the plot for me, as well as to someone who glanced over at my computer screen when I was reading the topic. Please edit your post to remove the spoilers or post a warning.</p>
<p>Back to the Future is 25 years old, you cad… If you want I’ll let you borrow my DeLorean so you can go back in time to before you read my post. But first I gotta fix the flux capacitor.</p>
<p>Btw: Who browses College Confidential with their buddy on a Saturday night? lol</p>
<p>If you didn’t have success in high school you’ll probably find it difficult in college. I speak from experience. It’s a harsh world out there in terms of getting a girlfriend, it’s best to have realistic expectations from the get-go. That way if you end up not getting a girlfriend (or getting any) you’re not let down.</p>
<p>^ I disagree with that. I actually know quite a lot of guys who had little luck in high school but are having a much easier time in college as long as you find the right one- not the one still stuck in the high school mentality of “oh, I want the jock/rebel/cute one/etc”. And really, who wants to date one of them anyway? </p>
<p>Don’t go looking for a relationship. You rarely find them that way. They kind of just happen when you’re least expecting it.</p>
<p>“Don’t go looking for a relationship. You rarely find them that way. They kind of just happen when you’re least expecting it.”</p>
<p>It’s kind of hard to do that when a relationship is the only thing in life that you’ve never had.</p>
<p>^Well would you rather have a bunch of crummy relationships or none at all? I had that mentality in HS and it got me into bad relationships, nothing good will come with that.</p>
<p>If you don’t get a girlfriend you will have less stress, more money to yourself, and better GPA.</p>
<p>Also more Freedom. You won’t have to tag along with a her, go clothes shopping, or buy her stuff.</p>
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<p>Yeah totally, who cares about relationships you don’t need them. Not just in high school, you don’t need them ever, you should just live your life alone because that way you will have more money and better academic results. Should just live and die alone, sounds awesome.</p>
<p>(Sarcasm)</p>
<p>I love that it’s assumed one has to buy their girlfriend lots of things.</p>
<p>Guys: The reason girls are attracted to bad boys is not because they want to “fix” them or anything like that. Rather, the guy treats the girl badly, making the girl feel inferior and thus does things to try and get his attention. The fact that the guy isn’t chasing her looking desperate makes her think, “why isn’t he attracted to me? What am I doing wrong?” Thus, she tries hard to get his attention. </p>
<p>Is this right girls?</p>
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<p>Hmm… no one’s told my boyfriend that. <em>sigh</em> lol</p>
<p>@hpyscm- Some women do that- but obviously not all. It’s a stereotype that women want the “bad boy”. Also… unfortunately, that’s the cycle for domestic violence- the oh, I’m not good enough so I must do better to please him. :(</p>
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<p>The idea that guys should buy their girlfriend heaps of stuff is pretty pathetic. It’s so archaic and doesn’t reflect the modern world where women are just as active in the workforce are men.</p>
<p>Most couples I know buy each other an equal amount of stuff, which is good.</p>
<p>This thread is adorable. Blind leading the blind.</p>