<p>Public universities rarely give good financial aid to students from other states. I do know that Missouri makes it easier than some other states to establish in-state residency after a year of college (Google this, I think you will find information). But most of the other schools on your list will not give you much aid. Why should they? Your family does not pay taxes in their state. U of Miami is private, though. </p>
<p>What you need to do is run the net price calculator on the financial aid website of schools you are interested in. Your first year you will have 3 people in college, right? And four after that – depending on when your mom finishes. </p>
<p>But look hard at your SUNY options, they will likely be most affordable.</p>