Bruh I’m worried–not trying to throw myself off a bridge. I’m not sure if you’re trying to help me or not; a simple “don’t worry about it here are some things that can help you” is fine instead of trying to convince me my concern is some sort of aberration. A lot of your reasoning for why I shouldn’t be worried seems to be along the lines of “lots of other people deal with the same problem as you or worse so you shouldn’t worry”, and I don’t care to hear that kind of rationale because all it does is disregard my very legitimate feelings. Sorry if to you they are just a red flag that i keep waving around on this thread. Thanks for the rest of your post though.