It is like, " I have been a good boy, did my chores, ate my vegetables. Why do I have take a bus to school when my friends drive BMW to school."
Your daughter is going to get a good college education. Just because you worked hard and “did everything right” in your eyes, doesn’t mean you and your family deserve all the luxuries in life. To me that’s entitlement. How many people work hard and go without, but they do not own a house, two cars, and good public education?
It is fine to vent here, but I think it is also a teaching moment for your kid, tell her to be happy and grateful for what she has.