It’s interesting how you resent the (mere handful of) poor students who get to go to Ivies for free. Do you resent trust-fund kids who get to go to Ivies without any meaningful impact to their family finances, or do you just resent the poors?
Because going through life worrying about what other people have / do is just a poor way of going through life. Guess what. There will be always be someone who is smarter, richer, better looking, better liked, more popular than you. There will always be someone who “wins the lottery” than you don’t. You can spend your time resenting them, or you can let it roll off your shoulders and just focus on being the best you that you can be - or as the kids say, “you do you.”
It is completely irrelevant to my life that there are kids at my kids’ schools who are getting full rides, just like it’s irrelevant to my life that there are people my age who own private jets and multiple homes.