@prospect1 I agree that he shouldn’t have forced her to retake tests. My point is if she was uncomfortable or unwilling to retake the tests that he should accept what that entails. I do believe that it’s more Dad’s issue than daughter’s. Full disclosure here. A huge part of my frustration is his daughter very much wants to go to one of the school’s my son has applied to and earned merit awards from. I would have never asked for or accepted merit at a higher level that he didn’t earn. He would’ve gotten what he earned because he earned it, not because I expected it. Therein lies my frustration. I guess I’m human.