<p>Thanks for all the valuable input. Great stuff!!</p>
<p>OK, as we pretty much knew, he can clearly have an awesome sports experience at either! SEC and Big 10 are both great and I think he'd be happy with either - no need to pick sides at this juncture ;-)</p>
<p>Madison and Athens are both awesome college towns - in fact, each town was a major factor in his choosing these as his top 2. Music, restaurants, "funky" feel, friendly even though the vibe is a bit different. Madison may offer a bit more as the city is larger and also state capital, but Athens is also lovely with lots to offer. Weather gets the nod in Athens for sure (and the gorgeous girls did not escape his notice - I am sure they are gorgeous at UW, too, but we just couldn't see when they were covered in full weather protection :-)! ) After enjoying a GLORIOUS late August day in Madison, we did make sure to re-visit at the end of January after he was accepted. We took our tour on a ONE degree morning. It freaked him out a bit, but he was ok. I told him we would just get a "big honking Michelin man parka" and he'd learn to deal - plus, the library is warm so he can just spend lots of time there! LOL. He loved the lake, and it was at least SUNNY with the cold. :-)</p>
<p>Perhaps I overstated the "liberal thing" as we live in a very conservative "red" area - I've never been 100% comfortable with it (DH and I from NY and Baltimore area), but he's grown up here so is more used to it. Although he would definitely like a more liberal or diverse setting, Athens would probably qualify compared to our home town. And, while not super religious, he is one of a very few Jewish kids at his school (I can literally count the number in the whole high school on my fingers) so it would be nice to have more of a religious mix as well as some international students, etc... maybe that is my bias (then again, I went to W&M which is considered fairly homogeneous and loved it so who knows?). </p>
<p>To answer a question from the thread - No, he did not apply to UGA's honors program. It was his plan, but the app was due right at the end of 1st semester and he was swamped with a huge AP English term paper and numerous exams as well as senior play and sports. He wasn't so seriously considering UGA at that point, so let it go. The plan/goal would be that he could apply during freshman year if he chose.</p>
<p>OK, so let's talk more about the MAIN reason for going to college - ACADEMICS! This is where I go back and forth and am of two minds. Obviously both schools have amazing educational opportunities with many bright, motivated students. I believe that college is what you make of it and, should he choose to fully avail himself of the many opportunites provided, he could get an excellent education and thrive at either school. And, I recognize that "rankings," "ratings," reputation, prestige... are not everything. BUT it is hard to ignore that they do play a role in grad/med school acceptance, job recruitment, etc... and by most measures U of Wisconsin seems to be the "stronger" academic school with a great reputation. I mean, they have like 70 programs in various fields that are considered "top 10" in the nation. UGA has some programs that are very tops as well, but given that DS is not 100% what he wants to major in, does it make sense academically not to choose UW? DS is quite bright with decent stats, but he not likely to be THE tippy top at either school. Honors might be a good option for him at UGA, but he is not a "high intensity academic" destined to be a Rhodes scholar - he is a hard worker and likes to think and discuss - he reads for pleasure a lot - he also wants balance, fun and quality of life - motivated, but not ultra-driven or uber-competitive with peers. Hope that gives a picture although his school choices might already have done that.</p>
<p>This is where I will betray my bias - I was always raised to believe you go to the "BEST" school you can get into at which you will also be happy and able to be successful. How much difference is there really between them? What about getting into graduate or med school (if he sticks with that)? In the end it is truly his choice, and we will support whatever he wants to do - really. It is his life to make of it what he will. It is possible to go to "Joe Schmoe" college and have a great and successful life and career, and it is also possible to go to Ivy U and not. </p>
<p>Phew, thanks. If you are still reading, thank you. It is helpful just to put it "on paper" and step back a bit. I welcome any other thoughts, suggestions, observations. In particular, from an academic standpoint... how significant is the difference and does it matter given that they are both good schools?</p>
<p>By the way, he would probably SAY he is leaning towards UW, but I get a sense that he also really likes UGA and is conflicted which is why I am writing this - to see if reading comments from outside, objective folks helps settle what is right for him in his mind. We know lots of kids choosing and making such the FINAL choice is hard for most. They've worked so hard to have CHOICES and are now justifiably relishing them.</p>