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<p>We're not in it to date, first off...</p>
<p>There are good points, and there are bad points, to being a woman in engineering. You'll encounter some jerks when you're in the extreme minority, no matter which minority you are. </p>
<p>There's pretty much the good, the bad, and the ugly.</p>
<p>For the ugly part, I've had guys ask, when I wasn't there, "Why are those women in this class, anyway? They're just going to end up as housewives." I've been in situations where I've kept a sexual harassment log that made my superiors blush and gasp. I've been asked repeatedly by a former superior, "But what's going to happen with your career after you get married?" I've been asked out on dates by construction foremen while wearing a carat of diamonds on my left ring finger (same foreman pointed to a tenant's cat and suggestively told me, "You can pet the kitty if you want to." Eww!)... The list goes on, but I've been on the engineering path for... yeesh, nearly a decade now. I'd say something truly offensive only happens at most every six months on average, and can happen far less often if you find a good working environment. It can happen more often if you find a bad one.</p>
<p>The bad-- I've found that even if the guys aren't outright insulting (and they're usually not... very few are bad at all), if they're fairly traditional, even if they're younger, those with stay-at-home wives who haven't really had any experience with working women don't really know what to do with me. They treat me as a good worker, but they flirt with me significantly more than they would with their male coworkers (obviously!), and there's a tinge of confusion as to what my ultimate motives are. Luckily, there aren't a ton of these, and they're getting fewer and fewer as each of these guys becomes a convert to the idea that women can really be good at this stuff, too.</p>
<p>The good: the large majority of the guys you'll run into, and likely most if not all of your college classmates, will fall into the 'really good guy' category. They treat you as a colleague and as a friend, and they'll almost entirely ignore the oddity of your being a woman in a male-dominated field. Good firms tend to attract these guys.</p>
<p>There are a lot of good apples. The bad ones sometimes get to you. If you find the career rewarding, and if you're aware of which situations are bad for you and which are good for you and can pick out a good situation for you to stay in, you'll make it just fine. It's a good career!</p>