<p>Again, you make the (I would say) mistake of thinking the only important time that contributes to 'workload' is class time. </p>
<p>The reason why I consider club activities workload is because of the different nature between college and highschool. In highschool, you are usually part of many student organizations and you go to a meeting say once a week or once a month, and volunteer for a couple hours a semester and that's all the commitment you need for it. </p>
<p>However, in college, most organizations are much more active in nature, requiring an actual commitment in time, where you are responsible for something on which others depend on you. That's why where most people at my school participated in a wide variety of ECs in high school, now only participate in the two or three that they have the time and energy to devote to it to do it properly. Sports take up 3 hours a day every day with most of the weekend spent traveling. Dramat suddenly takes up untold hours as you put together actual productions throughout the semester without the assistance of other adults. Campus publications take up enormous amounts of time as you have to meet with layout people, articles writers, publishers, within a set deadline. </p>
<p>Everything in high school is so structured and in such a way that you are sure to be able to finish the majority of your commitment to a club within the once a week/ once a month meetings. Thus, the dynamic that is observed in college differs from highschool in that, at least in my personal experience, academics often take a back seat to extra currics, because to most people, that's what really makes the college experience worthwhile, not what you learned while sleeping through your econ class, but in the many activities that you are part of on campus. That's why I consider club activities as actual workload in college. </p>
<p>Has your S actually lived on the college campus and been immersed in the environment there? Has he had the chance to participate in the activities offered by the college? Taking classes at a college do not constitute experiencing the 'workload' at the particular college. The nature of work at college is extremely different from high school. I am trying to belabor this point because I feel it is important to not underestimate college and avoid the midterm 'wake-up call' that you refer to. While your S need not be 'afraid' of college, if he thinks the same way you do, he may be in for surprise. </p>
<p>Finally, I would just like to say that college is much more time consuming and much harder than high school. Not on the academic level, but on the whole, where you work to divide your time and energy between class, friends, and activities (and lets not forget sleep!). </p>
<p>If you wish to think otherwise, be my guest, I have already been through my first three years in college and am just sharing some of my experiences, thoughts, and opinions.</p>