Agree with @bopper on encouraging your daughter to take a career aptitude test. Lots of people are unaware of the many careers out there - it could be eye opening for both of you.
(As an aside, I am puzzled how someone with a random BA is qualified to be a “management consultant” although it sounds like a thing.)
What interests her? What is she passionate about? Sometimes volunteer efforts or ECs can pave the way to careers.
I would try to reboot with your daughter and acknowledge that not everyone knows exactly what they want to do on the same timeline. Often, career goals change. I don’t think there is anything wrong with you guiding her — but I would try to keep your fear (anger) out of it. She is shutting down on you and empathy could help.