Worried About DD Lacking Direction

[2plustrio]

@amsunshine

@2plustrio

Your daughter does have post graduation plan. She does not have her entire adult life planned out and that is okay. I find it completely unrealistic for you to expect her to have more than a 5 year plan in place which she does, you just dont agree with it.
I was just in an interview yesterday and I was asked what my 5 year plan was. Guess what, I said I wasn’t quite sure. I’m in my mid 40’s, Ive had a few jobs, I have my master’s. I’m doing quite okay despite not knowing what I’m doing 5 years from now.

I pray your daughter can survive her parenting and not self harm. Female Koreans have a disproportionate rate of suicide. Horribly sad how parents can add to these girl’s stress and feelings of inadequacy.

I would be cautious attributing this scenario to any particular culture. There are plenty of parents from many different cultures and backgrounds who treat their children this way.

Sadly, females from South Korea have one of the highest suicide rates in the world. I agree that this is a growing problem for all but statistics prove certain demographic groups are at higher risk.