I agree that TO applies to all. Many of D’s friends applied TO.
Are you flying into Boston? It’s a two hour drive. Much closer to fly into Portland, if you’re taking two planes. Look into that option, especially if you want to see Bowdoin and Colby too.
D knows kids from Hawaii, Washington State, India, Morocco, Thailand and Alaska, as well as a bunch of other far flung places. They all take multiple plane flights. Your child should know that he or she won’t be alone in that. It’s easy to get to Boston or Portland. Plus, they are young and can handle it.
From how you describe your child, it sounds like Bates is a good fit. I can tell you that not everyone visits. Of the kids mentioned from above, a lot never set foot on campus until move in day. The college loves visits, but they fully understand it isn’t possible for everyone. No idea where you live, but two plane rides away tells me that your child might get a little boost in his/her app simply by not living a single plane ride away.
If you’re planning, say, a week in the NE to visit colleges, and LACs in particular, I think some others that might fit your child could be Middlebury, Connecticut College, Tufts, Skidmore, Vassar, and Wesleyan. Maybe Marist, as a less selective option. Universities might include Northeastern and Boston U. You need to check which of those might be test optional though. Your child’s score will be on the low side for schools like Middlebury, Wesleyan and Tufts, but more competitive for Marist, Connecticut College, and maybe Skidmore.
I’m not sure that Bowdoin and Colby have quite the vibe it sounds like your child is looking for, though the three Maine NESCAC’s have a lot in common and you can find similar kids at probably all three schools. Many people check out all three. As an aside, my own child had no interest in Colby or Bowdoin and never visited. We drove up and back in a very long day just to visit and interview at Bates. She’s not social-justicey, but she definitely wanted a more relaxed, creative vibe and that’s what she found. She also likes Lewiston, which is not glamorous in any way. It’s working class, but there are still plenty of things to do, and great access to outdoor activities.
Should add that no Greek life has always been super important to my D and she loves that there is none at Bates.
To answer your question, if you are definitely coming to the Northeast, yes, Bates is worth a visit. Visiting and interviewing can help his/her application.