<p>Got into Carolina!!!!!!-political science. I have lots of questions about if i will fit in or not. If i come off as arrogant or mean, please bear with me as i assure you i am not doing it intentionally, and apolligize in advance. Thanks!</p>
<p>I went to a extremely pretentious new england boarding school and played lacrosse and did rowing, so i am that "type." I am from a boston suburb. Male. I LOVE southern culture from the food to the hospitality. I am totally the "yes mam, no sir" type.</p>
<p>here are my questions:</p>
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<li><p>Is there a large prep school crowd there? (exeter, deerfield type) I want to meet new people, but i was hoping to also find my little home that im comfortable in</p></li>
<li><p>How is the diversity? Is it mostly public school NC kids from middle class? From boarding scshool, most of my friends were very very wealthy legacies</p></li>
<li><p>How is the dress style there? I absolutely LOVE the southern preppy scene, embroidered vineyard vines khakis, bow ties etc.....my wardrobe is all pastels (again sorry to be stereo typical but that was my environment....)</p></li>
<li><p>are there many "formals?" like southern balls or something? Id love to experience that type of party scene.....tux/tie and dresses for the ladies.</p></li>
<li><p>the size is what most concerns me.... will i be able to have my own group of friends? or is it just a chaotic sea of people??</p></li>
<li><p>how are out of state prep school kids looked upon? is there reverse snobbery? i know at some state schools people HATE prep school kids because they automatically assume they are snobby.</p></li>
<li><p>Can out of state kids get into decent frats? or are they all reserved for the varsity athletes basically? (i am not going to be playing lacrosse or rowing)</p></li>
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<p>Thank you for taking the time to read this post!! I truly appreciate any help /contribution you can give me</p>