<p>This is exactly my same dilemma. I’ve narrowed my choices down to Wesleyan and Duke, which are on very opposite ends of the spectrum. I really like Duke but am a bit wary about it for the exact same reasons as you. That being said, the fact that you are nervous about that too makes me feel better that there are more of us out there that could potentially be going to Duke hahaa. Don’t know if that makes you feel any better, but it helped me a bit, so thanks :)</p>