<p>My friend Josie and I were joking around one day, and we said that we needed boyfriends. I offered to find her one, and in return she was going to ask my crush if he liked me. This was last week. I was thinking, this is going to be easy. Josie is very funny, has lots of friends, and has good features. She is tall and rather large, but not obese. She is very fit, and can even do a split and toe touches, something some of the skinniest people can't do! I went around school trying to find a guy for her. Today alone I asked 4 guys, and they said no. Her being fat was the reason for all the denials. They all knew her personally, and knew what a nice person she is. She wasn't surprised, and even though I used to be overweight too, I was. So the question is:</p>
<p>Would you date a fat girl/boy if you liked everything else about them?</p>
<p>I think I would if I really really liked their personality.</p>
<p>Yeah but Donald Trump has a looooooot of money. I mean a whole lot. Like millions, right? He shouldn't have trouble with the ladies. I think princess meant a normal fat kid, with a nice personality, right? If so. . yeah, i think I would, even though it's pretty darn mean to eliminate people just cuz of their weight</p>
<p>edit, forgot to say, i've grown in a family where we're not allowed to buy junk food and we generally eat a lot of healthy food, so that's another factor, because if the fat kid eats a lot of bad food, the other person in teh relationship may get annoyed</p>
<p>hmm.. interesting dilemma, the short answer is... actually there is no short answer.</p>
<p>I'm fat.. plain and simple. I'm not HUGE, but I know better than to deny that I'm overweight. So far, I've never been turned down by a guy because of my weight. But there are guys who will never see me in that way because I am big. And that's exactly how I want it. </p>
<p>So yes, there is hope for you even if you're big, and when a guy likes you, you can be sure it's for real.</p>
<p>Lots of guys might be intimidated by her. Also, it sounds like you're kinda young. I mean the whole asking your friend's crush is... no offense.. nostalgic.</p>
<p>For the record... my current interest is big, and it's cool by me. Great chemistry isn't just looks.</p>
<p>donald trump isnt fat. im a guy btw. hes what i would call well built/husky but in no way fat. if hes fat or large, than almost every other guy in america who isnt an abercrombie model is fat or large.</p>
<p>Good Point.......the part I love about this discussion is that current stats would reveal that many folks in this demographic are fat.....so where are all of them and I'll bet they date each other.</p>
<p>Men aren't judged by weight; they're judged by their height. For every guy you find that won't date a fat girl, you'll find a girl who won't date a short guy.</p>
<p>I'm 5'8" so I'm at a comfortable average, but not so tall that I can't still empathize with those guys who are rejected for a few inches of bone mass.</p>
<p>My bf is not fat. He's 6'4 with football playerish build, but he has a pooch, and hates it. Even though it's not noticable when he has a shirt on, it is noticable when he doesn't. I find his pooch very cute and sexy,though. </p>
<p>Donald Trump is husky bordering on fat (very close to fat)...and I'm a girl btw.</p>
<p>I know I'm biased when it comes to height. In fact, I have a 6'0 and up standard...very shallow, but a very good personality can overcome the height factor.</p>
<p>Depends on what one would classify as short and what one would classify as fat. Short for me is 5'11 and below and fat for me would be the american idol, reuban's size.</p>