<p>Berkeley.</p>
<p>I could go on forever about why Cal is better, but I won't bore you. Do bear in mind:</p>
<p>The competitiveness? All right, you work your ass off to get into a top university, and you don't want to work hard anymore? w/eee. And it's not as competitive as many make it out to be; depends on where you go.</p>
<p>Urban? It's an urban setting, yes. Berkeley has 100,000 or so residents; that's considered a small city. Many agree: it has the vague semblance of a city, without the hustle and bustle.</p>
<p>As for housing: a good percentage of undergrads are given housing -- you just have to apply. Many don't because they have the opportunity to live off campus. I'd choose UCB over UCLA 'cause UCLA may, supposedly, guarantee 3 years of housing, but off-campus housing is outrageous, and you're most likely going to get on-campus housing in UCB, anyway. Also, UCLA is, well, in LA. 'Nuff said.</p>
<p>Cal is academically superior in many aspects, has distinguished alumni and faculty, has an intriguing history, and, above all, has myriad opportunities. Plus, it's the Bay area -- how can anyone ever get bored in an area like that? Berkeley alone is awesome, and if you really want a big city, Oakland's right next door and SF is just a "BART hop away."</p>
<p>Anyway, for your situation, I'd go with Cal. Only 40 minutes away? Ah, well, think about transportation to Boston College (by plane, then comes Thanksgiving break, Christmas break, spring break, etc. -- back and forth). Also, you'd probably be living in Berkeley, anyway -- 40 minutes is a bit of a laborious drive every day for college. And personalized attention? It's sort of annoying how people disseminate negative ideas about Berkeley in that respect. Yeah, some of your freshman classes are gonna be huge, but your classes can be really small, too. And you <em>can</em> get personalized attention -- you just have to pursue it. With 2,000 faculty, I'm sure anyone could. How else would Berkeley be one of the top universities academically? It sure as hell isn't just the faculty -- it's the students that bring the university to life (collaboration of the students and faculty for research and more).</p>
<p>Boston College is, for me, too far away (Cal is a 6 hour drive anyway), not the academic caliber I'm looking for, is out of state and thus is much more expensive, etc. </p>
<p>Why did you choose Boston College, anyway? There are other great public out-of-state universities, in that area, too.</p>