<p>Who really knows what actually transpired- the details, the motives, the order of things, who knew what, how others see it. You can keep adding details to make it make sense to us but why bother? What matters most is you feel this is how it was, and it is continuing to hurt you. </p>
<p>I think for your own well being- not the well being of your parents or your uncle- but YOUR well being- you should seek professional help to come to terms with it. Regardless of what transpired, the real motives, the mistakes, the injustices, you need to get passed it so it’s not still eating you another 3 years or 13 years or 30 years from now. That just continues the tragedy and does nothing to help you live a peaceful and successful life. And you will have to do so without their help or apology. </p>
<p>You are Indian. You are applying to U of Rochester without financial aid. I have to assume you are able to go abroad to study now because of your parents. Maybe this will help you get over it.</p>