“Would I send my D’s to B if I had D’s? Yes. If I had raised D’s they would know by college age not to be victims and not to live their lives in fear.”
I promised myself not to respond again but i must at least respond to this.
Millions of women who were raised NOT to be victims are raped every year. Please don’t continue with this line of thinking. I have a close friend who was raped. Expert in the martial arts. Supremely fit and athletic. Victim of nobody and did not live in fear.
Bottom line- a woman who is stone cold sober and prepared to defend herself can find herself in the wrong place at the wrong time (she was walking to her car in a parking garage- a garage with security cameras everywhere and armed security guards at the front gate) through NO fault of her own. She chose to survive the ordeal rather than fight back and risk her life-- good decision for the people who love her.
You are really going to raise your daughters so they can fend off each and every attack or attacker regardless of the circumstances? Wow. That’s hubris.