I’m a twin and like many twins, my sister and I have been doing almost everything together (ecs, sports, classes). Are essays regarding twins and the experiences they go through common? I’m scared that if I write an essay about me growing out of the “twins act the same way” dilemma, admissions officers will find it really generic. I wanted to elaborate on us growing apart because of sports (positions we play, athletic ability) but I’m sure there are other sets of twins out there that have a very similar experience.
HOW you write it the essay way more important than the topic. Start a draft or outline and see how it goes. Remember the essay is not a confessional but should be used to try and convince admissions officers that they want you on campus/that you can add value to the campus. If you focus on things like personal growth etc. it could work.
You’ll need to “show, not just tell.” It means the right examples of how you’ve grown, in the ways the targets want to see. The traits, responsibilities you now take on, how you do some good. I think that’s not just a narrative about different sports, but about the “wholer” you. Not just, “And now we’re not typical twins.” It’s about you.
@happy1 and @lookingforward, thank you so much for the advice!