<p>My family is in this category. We have 3 kids and we had been saving in their 529’s since they were all toddlers. We got hit at one point when the stock market went down and we lost a considerable amount of money in their 529’s. So we started saving all over again-in a fixed acct. </p>
<p>We live in California and both hubby and I are native to our city. Our families can’t help financially. Hubby has a good job but the cost of living is high. We both drive older used cars; we don’t spend excessively, we don’t travel, we didn’t remodel our kitchen, and we’ve been squirreling away as much money as possible-which has been our downfall-the savings accounts for the kids are big assets on the FAFSA. </p>
<p>When my husband and I both went to our undergraduate colleges, we both went to instate schools (h=UC, wife=Cal State) and could earn enough money through part-time jobs (tour guides, waitressing). Grad schools were not that much more and we both paid for these through jobs. (Hubby’s Stanford grad. education was paid by working at the zoo.)</p>
<p>We could have never imagined or predicted what the universities’ fees would rise to. Our middle daughter (4.4 gpa) will be at her UC in Sept. Our EFC is $23K each, for both she and her older sister. We’re URM, but because of our income, middle daughter only qualified for $307 “scholarship” and loans. That’s the cost of her chem book. She was a finalist for Hispanic Scholarship Fund, but we recently got a letter saying that she was not chosen. I suspect our “income” hurt us. Middle daughter is working as a hotel housekeeper to save money for her fall expenses. Eldest is working (14 hr days) as an EE intern to pay her housing costs. They know now how hard it is to earn a dollar.</p>
<p>The middle daughter’s classmate who lives down the street in a bigger house, newer mercedes and lexus SUVs, two children, designer clothes and a lower gpa, not URM, was given several scholarships, which are funding most of her education at the same school.</p>
<p>I am really frustrated by it all, and we’re definitely trying to find more money to deposit into son’s 529 account. (2014 grad). Additionally, we used to donate money to our alma maters’ along with matching funds from our employers. Not anymore, no money; also, our companies have also limited what they will match. (We’re not thrilled that the colleges were using our dollars to fully fund students from out of state and out of the country). </p>
<p>So when we get on CC and we see the “entitled” attitudes of some of the students, and especially international kids who want full rides because they feel they are owed these funds, it makes us angry. One kid actually had the gall to say that because Americans make more money overall than India, we needed to provide more opportunities for them because we don’t understand what being “poor” is. That could be true in some circles, but you’re talking a to girl from the barrio whose family relied on the the church’s monthly food pantry to eat. (Father-Texan Army vet who only knew how to share-crop) </p>
<p>My URM kids worked their butts off: studying for their AP tests, their EC’s, violin lessons, and Sports!!! Result: a hefty tuition bill! NADA, ni un pedazo de pan!! Very frustrating!</p>