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<p>Yes, that’s the idea. You go where you can get work and support yourself. In part, you convince your kids by letting them know that you will not subsidize them to live locally. If you are not willing to do this, then of course you will be living in an extended family arrangement for quite some time. Whatever works for you.</p>
<p>My family has always been willing to move for jobs. I don’t think it’s outrageous or unusual. I have relatives in the East, South, Midwest, and Pacific Northwest. It’s a big world out there.</p>