<p>Hey there... JPan gives you a great response, however, I'll also include my thoughts as a sort of "second opinion." I'm a current sophomore at Vassar (female).</p>
<p>a) First of all, although Poughkeepsie may not be the best place in the world, it's certainly not all that bad. Within walking distance of the campus, for example, there are several restaurants worth a visit: The Beech Tree (a grill which is a good place for taking the family to when they visit), Babycakes (a bakery which also serves breakfast, lunch, and dinner), The Dutch Cabin (pretty good quality Tex-Mex), Baccio's (a pizza place), a Middle Eastern restaurant, a Chinese restaurant, the Krafted Cup (a coffeehouse), a Japanese restaurant, and a Thai restaurant. In addition, the streets accessible via walking distance also feature an independent bookstore, a dollar store (as JPan mentioned), and several independent botiques. </p>
<p>For students who don't bring a car to campus (most don't), there is also a town shuttle and a weekend shuttle to the mall. I haven't taken the town shuttle yet--the idea is that it makes stops throughout the city so students can get to jobs, internships, the grocery store, other restaurants, and so on--however, I have used the mall shuttle to the Poughkeepsie Galleria a couple of times. The Galleria is probably one of the places that Vassar students most often frequent on weekends: the mall is quite nice and there's also a rather sizable movie theatre in it. </p>
<p>In addition, there are plenty of other things to do in Poughkeepsie, aside from the mall. There city, for example, has a rather rich music scene... there are several places off-campus (the Chance is the one I'm best-acquainted with) which are frequented by local and regional performers. There's also the Bardavon Theatre, a historic opera house where more "formal" musical events are put on. Poughkeepsie is also quite the historic place... there are a variety of different sites you can tour and visit, including the Franklin Delano Roosevelt house and library. If you're more interested in outdoor activities, Poughkeepsie offers that as well... the Hudson Valley is quite picturesque (particularly in the fall), and there are a wealth of hiking trails. There's an outdoor club on-campus through which you can take hikes (and get rides to the parks). Of course, it helps to have a car if you're interested in activities that are further off-campus; however, it's still possible to visit them without one via either a taxi or, for some of the things I've mentioned, the campus shuttle. I have access to a car now, but my first semester of my freshman year I didn't, and I survived quite well. Oh, and also, Poughkeepsie also has quite the variety of restaurants further off-campus, including the Culinary Institute of America in nearby Hyde Park.</p>
<p>Although Poughkeepsie certainly isn't as "happening" as NYC, there are also local events that take place within the city such as farmers markets and ethnic and seasonal festivals. I've been to a couple of them, and they're definitely worth a visit... there's usually lots of food and vendors with all sorts of things for sale. </p>
<p>Also, keep in mind, that there's lots that goes on on-campus during the week and on weekends. The school does an excellent job at offering a wealth of different activities. During the week, for example, there are lectures, club meetings, and themed dinners put on by student clubs, while weekend offerings include movie nights, club activities, all-campus parties with themes such as "Seven Sins" and "Day-Glo Toga," sports games, and theatrical/musical/dance venues put on by both student groups and outside organizations.</p>
<p>Lastly, New York City actually does happen to be accessible for those who don't have a car on-campus. Poughkeepsie is the last stop on the Hudson Line from the city, meaning that you can catch a train at the Poughkeepsie station and find yourself in Grand Central Station in under two hours. Getting to the train station is also no big deal. There's the campus shuttle for one, as well as a taxi.</p>
<p>b) I really haven't found the boy/girl ratio at Vassar to be a big deal... it's something I rarely, if ever, notice. There are still plenty of guys around, and, contrary to what I often get asked, most of them are not gay. Heterosexual (as well as same-sex) hook-ups happen frequently and dating is entirely possible whether you're straight, gay, or anything in between. To use myself as an example... I've been in a relationship with a guy I met through one of my first semester classes for more than a year now. Vassar by no means feels like an all-girls, or even mostly-girls, school.</p>
<p>c) This last point is something I can't help you with quite as much, primarily because I arrived at Vassar from a small high school of under 250 students. I find the environment to be a good size for me, personally. As JPan mentions, it's small enough to still feel like a community, but large enough that it doesn't feel like a fishbowl where you know everyone and everything like the back of your hand. Even after a year and a half of being at Vassar, I still find myself not recognizing a lot of the people I see.</p>