What we are seeing at Yale is not happening in a vacuum. I believe that the young people who are “complaining” about being marginalized are experiencing the discrimination not just their own lives, but they also identify with what is currently in the media around the country. This is a national issue. It’s this broader context that probably prompted the original email from the Dean. Seems reasonable to me. For EC to send out what is essentially an argument against the reminder to the community to be sensitive regarding the way they celebrate the evening seems out of touch with what’s going on in across the country right now, and I doubt very much that she thought it would elicit such an angry blow back.
From classicalmama’s links:
The courtyard of a residential college is much like the backyard patio of your house. It isn’t considered a public space by the residents.
Lergnom, I would agree that Yale students are not particularly isolated from the town. Students frequent restaurants, bars, theaters, museums in the community often, and meals are not required in the dining halls, as meal plans have some flexibility. Students commonly volunteer in the community. The four years we visited my Dd, students were off campus frequently. Mine would run around the residential neighborhood, grab food while she was out, go back to campus to clean up and go to class, and then head out to meet people at a pub or pizza place. When I think of isolated from real life, I think of Williams, Middlebury, Dartmouth, - rural campuses that aren’t set in the middle of a city. New Haven is real life, and it’s pretty hard to escape it even if students wanted to.
Several of my Dd’s friends moved into an apartment in town for senior year. Not the norm, but not uncommon.