Yale is Imploding over a Halloween Email

Having viewed the videos, I didn’t think he was being condescending. At one point, kids in the back are telling him he is speaking too softly and he then says he doesn’t want to shout at the young woman in front of him. He does not accept the overall student premise that the email was wrong and saw nothing to apologize for, at least at that moment. He is defensive, but most would be if surrounded and if called out on things you don’t think your did or don’t think you are. You should really watch the entire thing before commenting, CF.

Scuba: She was not in a no-win situation. She could have worded her email more carefully to acknowledge both the students that support the original email and yet also bring up her point about kids deciding for themselves. And perhaps acknowledge that confronting someone at a Halloween party over his costume is not likely going to happen. Or she could have avoided the situation by not sending the email in the first place (which it seems like the other masters did).

I don’t think they should lose their jobs as Masters, which they have only held for a couple of months, if this were the only issue. If, however, they are not doing things that other Masters typically do like having hours or meetings (as Jonri said above), and are not willing to change, then they probably should not be in this position.

EC had options. She could have (a) done nothing (what injustice would have been done had she let a request to be considerate go unchallenged?) (b) pointed out to the students who complained to her that the IAC email didn’t propose (nor were Masters asked to impose) any sanctions upon kids who chose costumes others considered offensive © suggested that the students voice their concerns directly to the Dean who sent the email or (d) set up a housewide forum, post-Halloween, that would enable students with differing viewpoints to discuss the issue. These are just the possibilities that seem obvious to me – I’m sure there are others I haven’t thought of.

I repeat one of my original posts on this topic, the words of eloquent frustration from one of my good friends daughter, a senior at Yale:

As I look past my windowsill, I gaze upon the Master of Silliman’s colonial house. A college Master, Nicholas Christakis is “responsible for the physical well being and safety of students in the residential college, as well as for fostering and shaping the social, cultural, and educational life and character of the college,” a charge Nicholas says he takes “seriously.” He resides in that house with his wife Erika, who, in her words, is there to “support the Silliman community in any way” she can.

Finding that support for Silliman and other college students of color lacking, it would seem as if the Master’s House is in disarr

Read more at http://indiancountrytodaymedianetwork.com/2015/11/01/van-alst-coddling-white-privilege-silencing-people-color-162287

With more time, facts and context, her words gain veracity and prudence by the moment.

Mom2and. - I still do not see how the email was hurtful. And i think more importantly she had no intention of being hurtful. However as i did say: her email by logic would have addressed students who felt disenfranchised from the initial email. In any event i agree to disagree.

Person A, who is white, disagreeing with Person B, who is of color, is not “silencing people of color.” He’s merely disagreeing.

Here is an excerpt of what I consider the best analysis of the current events, Salon:

But Christakis went beyond personal musings, remarking instead on the social utility of trolling, and offering behavioral prescriptions to students who were offended by racially insensitive costumes, rather than those whose costumes are apt to cause offense. “Nicholas says, if you don’t like a costume someone is wearing, look away, or tell them you are offended. Talk to each other.” However reasonable the advice, it came in the context of an e-mail, also sent from a position of authority, lambasting college administrators for using their authority to offer guidelines of their own, and suggesting that to do so creates an environment of “censure and prohibition.”

The only way this isn’t morally inconsistent is if the feelings of minority students simply matter less to her than others’, if the alienation and discomfort of her students of color is less meaningful and important than the fun to be had from their peers’ provocations. One group deserves to be coddled, protected from the judgment of the ever-overreaching administration (of which she is a part). The other does not. Christakis’s e-mail was no less about shielding students, but it was about shielding students who need protection the least: those who might perceive a request for baseline levels of courtesy and civility as overly burdensome. She values the delicate sensibilities of the offender over the offended.

The very idea that this polite plea for tolerance is tantamount to administrative trouncing upon rights is, in and of itself, an inherently political view. It is also one that displays a fundamental misunderstanding of the mechanisms of free speech. (A repeat of the Christakises’ 2012 mistake.) Unchecked free speech does not result in better speech, as the Harvard incident illustrated, and can instead encourage language and behaviors that are inflammatory without being genuinely provocative. Yet the very reason why the government needn’t police speech is because evolving social norms dictate what speech is acceptable. Universities are entitled, compelled, even, to develop whatever cultures they see fit, to play their part in establishing those norms.

In the creation of this culture, students play a crucial role as well. In this case, students took issue with the ideas expressed in Christakis’s e-mail, and found those ideas prohibitively disrespectful for someone charged with promoting their well-being. They are not guilty of intolerance for suggesting that those who have used their positions of authority to advance their own offensive views are not fit to serve as House Masters. Nor are they spoiled brats who deserve to be scolded for having the gall to demand respect in their hard-earned home. They are entitled to express themselves, too. Shielding people from judgment based on their professed beliefs, and the means over and manner in which they choose to profess them, does not enhance the sanctity of free speech. It undermines it.

In Time, the Christakises accused Harvard of getting “bogged down in concerns about safeguarding people’s feelings.” Three years later, Erika Christakis lauded the good old days when college campuses were environments wherein people were free to be “a little bit inappropriate or provocative or, yes, offensive?” They are, and she was. But she cannot now demand that Yale safeguard her from the social and professional consequences of that offense; she is entitled to protection from neither. Yale owes no continued obligation to the Christakises as House Masters. As Friedersdorf has painstakingly noted, it has far better things to do. Their luxurious housing and prestigious positions are offered in exchange for a job well done. They are no more entitled to it than a student who is expelled for failing to meet academic standards. That is, failing to fulfill the duties of his role.

“If our brightest and most capable young adults can’t be trusted to think for themselves,” the Christakises implored three years ago, “who can? And if our greatest American universities won’t protect words, who will?” Yale’s responsibility is to the students who have, quite literally, bought into its promise. This does not include protection from discomfort, but does include a good faith effort to protect them from the very specific kind of discomfort that stems from having one’s feelings discounted on the basis of race. And, at the very least, that those feelings are not diminished, as they so often are, by the very adults tasked with their protection. It also includes an obligation to teach all of its students the values of tolerance, empathy, and inclusivity. But if these values can’t be imparted to our brightest and most capable young adults, then to whom can they be taught? And if not at our greatest universities, then where can they be learned?

Didn’t some of these adults chant no means yes or host a party for white girls only? Very adult. i don’t see how advising students to be mindful of others in dressing up is so objectionable.

But what if person A holds both a larger platform and more power than person B?

boolaHl: Do you have a link to that Salon article or the name of the author? Thanks for posting it.

ETA:
http://www.salon.com/2015/11/11/whos_really_demanding_to_be_coddled_on_campus_yale_students_arent_the_spoiled_brats_for_refusing_to_be_racially_trolled_on_halloween/

I think I found it.

Scuba: I initially thought that as well and would agree if her only role was as a professor in a classroom. But with the role of Master, her role is to create a supportive environment for all students. She specifically mentions the students that were frustrated by the original email, not the students that supported it. She gives short shrift to the notion that costumes can be hurtful, and does not support the idea (in this email) that some consideration of others should be included in that decision. She then tells kids who find a costume disrespectful to talk to the kid about that, which, as several of us have said, is not workable with regard to Halloween. That, and her comments about kids being allowed to be obnoxious on Halloween, seem to stray into the let the boys be boys territory. JMHO.

Do I think some kids are way too sensitive about Halloween costumes? Absolutely! I also think there are costumes I find degrading and offensive to woman, that would likely be worn by some of the students concerned about cultural stereotypes that they would find totally acceptable.

Igloo: so far there is no evidence that a “white girls only” party was actually held. One student said she heard someone say that. Others said there were both men and women of color at the party. Yale is investigating.

I did. And I saw him being condescending, interrupting students, and being defensive.

The e-mail Erika Christakis wrote, in full:

I was able to find several passages where Christakis seems to express a belief in Yale students’ knowledge and ability to carry on a discussion.

Will someone please find the passage of this letter that justifies personal attacks upon the Christakises? Demands for their resignations?

And even if we imagine that some bias is expressed here, you cannot legislate against the prejudice in someone’s heart, nor can an institution - public or private - regulate it out of existence. Regressive social views can be condemned, but the instant a given viewpoint is stifled as “undesirable” speech, those holding such views can rightly claim persecution. Were we to make racism punishable by death tomorrow, ours would be a less free society by virtue of such an unenforceable law, but no racist would be converted. The voices of friends, and family, and peers, by contrast, have tempered the views of many a bigot. If this viewpoint offends some, so be it.

Voltaire told one of his ideological opposites “I detest what you write, but I would give my life to make it possible for you to continue to write.” If only Yale students could show such open-mindedness, and not demand the departure from the campus of a professor with different views on the best way to fight prejudice, I might believe the student body really is the cream of a crop of 30,000 applicants.

Have the students asked for the departure from campus of the Christakises? I thought only that they be removed as Master and Associate Master? The story move fast. Have I missed that report?

For me, at least, there is a major difference between asking/demanding their removal as Masters of a college and asking/demanding they be removed as tenured faculty.

ETA: I doubt EC is tenured

I am not so sure about that the Salon article does a good job boola (assuming alh’s link is the same one you were reading). The Salon-linked Time article has some food for thought. Clearly EC and NC believe strongly in first amendment rights and in the strength of students to see satire. They also call out Harvard for focusing attention on the satiric flyers and not on what actually goes on in the Finals clubs. Yet the Salon author does not see that at all, finding their views offensive. As one commenter on the Time oped states:

The Salon writer argues that the EC email results in students “having one’s feelings discounted on the basis of race.” I think that is reading a lot into the email that is not there.

Ah, my bad. That should read “college” (as in, Silliman).

For what it’s worth, I don’t think that the claim was that there was a party where no women of color were admitted. it was that a group of women of color were turned away from the SAE party after one heard a frat bro say to the guy handling the door that he should only let in white girls. An AA man pledging the fraternity was later sent to one group of women who were turned away to tell them that it wasn’t on the basis of color but of looks. Some women of color had previously been admitted but, apparently, as the party got more crowded and noisy at least one guy decided there was only room for (pretty?) white girls and urged the guy at the door to turn others away and he did so. I don’t know if any of this is true, but it’s a more complicated story. Equally offensive, but with the potential to change who is responsible and what would disprove the allegation.

Here’s the WaPo coverage https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/grade-point/wp/2015/11/02/students-accuse-yale-sae-fraternity-brothers-of-having-a-white-girls-only-policy-at-their-party/

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But what if person A holds both a larger platform and more power than person B?"

Any two Yale students are equal to one another. Neither inherently has a “larger platform or more power.” I don’t care if one is a member of the Bush family and the other is from the ghetto - they are equal in their context of members of the Yale community.

@NotVerySmart - You seem to be missing the part of EC’s email that Emily Van Alst, Shrieking Girl and her friends find offensive. EC ends her email by stating:

Emily and Shrieking Girl don’t just want EC and Yale to control the costumes of young people, they want control of any speech, and they want to be the people to decide what is offensive. Look at the following exchange from the transcript that was posted earlier. They come out and say it.

You quoted “I detest what you write, but I would give my life to make it possible for you to continue to write” in one of your posts. Emily, Shrieking Girl and the people who support them don’t care about Voltaire, Locke, or the Marquise du Châtelet. All they care about is shutting down speech they dislike, and punishing people who stand in their way.

It is interesting to see the names of the Yale students on the selection committee that picked Christakis for the position at Silliman. Ms Luther helped pick him. Might have something to do with her personal offense level.

http://news.yale.edu/2015/02/26/nicholas-christakis-be-next-master-silliman-college