<p>Nine times out of ten, “I’m still getting over my ex” is just a convenient way to let someone down nicely. They aren’t really that hung up on them. Just sayin’.</p>
<p>OP, sounds like she just doesn’t like you “in that way.” She likes you enough as a friend to keep hanging out (she’ll start making excuses about being busy all the time otherwise), so stick around and maybe she’ll introduce you to her other friends. You might have better luck with one of them.</p>