<p>Hey all,</p>
<p>I don't consider myself to be a girl who has had a billion boyfriends, but I have a bit of a problem here.</p>
<p>A cute military guy gave me his number via a facebook message, (we kind of stumbled into each other by accident via a facebook group and he asked if I had a picture and I gave it to him) and said that he usually hangs around the area I live. (I found out that we live a half hour away from each other). So, I waited a couple of days and called him last night. I was deathly nervous and I'm pretty sure he could tell by my voice. I told him that my name is ______ and that he gave me his number (I totally forgot his name...I was nervous that I blanked out) and he said he remembered me and said I was that "army chick", but I told him that I wasn't in the service and he said "oh".</p>
<p>So long story short, he sounded dissappointed, but said that I caught him at a bad time and I asked if he wanted me to call him back, or if he wants to call me back. He said that he would call me back when he's "done" and I said okay. I told him my name again, and he told me his name (thankfully) and we said goodbye.</p>
<p>This was 8:30 last night and it is now 10:30 am. I'm afraid that he blew me off for no good reason...but my friends are saying that I'm overreacting and that I should give him a couple of days.</p>
<p>What should I do?</p>
<p>^that usually works pretty well.</p>
<p>Or wait a day or two (not 14 hours) before you decide he blew you off</p>
<p>Should I friend him on facebook? (I forgot to do that and it doesn't seem like he's on there much judging by the amount of friends he has).</p>
<p>Have you ever even met this guy in person?</p>
<p>"...two days is like industry standard."</p>
<p>"You know I used to wait two days to call anybody, but now it's like everyone in town waits two days. So I think three days is kind of money. What do you think? "</p>
<p>"Yeah, but two's enough not to look anxious."</p>
<p>"But I think three days is kind of money. You know because you... "</p>
<p>"Yeah, but you know what, mabey I'll wait 3 weeks. How's that? And tell her I was cleaning out my wallet and I just happened to run into her number. </p>
<p>"Then ask her where you met her."</p>
<p>"Yeah, I'll ask her where I met her. I don't remember. What does she look like? And then I'll asked if we hooked up. Is that... would that be... T, would that be the money? "</p>
<p>"You know what. Ha ha ha Mike, laugh all you want but if you call too soon you might scare off a nice baby who's ready to party."</p>
<p>"Well how long are you guys gonna wait to call your babies?"</p>
<p>"Six days."</p>
<p>Facebook Pimps!!! The worst type of pimp......</p>
<p>^^ Hey he's a mil guy and I like mil guys so whatever, don't knock the mil guys. :-P</p>
<p>XD</p>
<p>A guy that gives out his number on facebook; the smell of desperation couldn't be any worse.</p>
<p>What does the fact that you don't think you have a billion boyfriends (or any for that matter) have to do with anything? Just wondering.</p>
<p>Steevee,</p>
<p>I said that because I'm not an expert on relationships and I figured you guys would be like "OMG not <em>another</em> relationship/dating question!".</p>
<p>Why do you like this guy? Why do you like military guys?</p>
<p>^There's something special about a man in uniform...<em>sigh</em></p>
<p>Kidding...I'm a straight male.</p>
<p>OP What the hell and Why the hell would you call him?</p>
<p>Facebook...are you serious? Please do not use the internet for dating purposes. Good God go out instead of being a facebook zombie.</p>
<p>Haha, so I found out he blew me off. It's been 2 days and he hasn't called. Apparently, he rejected my friend request because in his limited profile, it no longer says "awaiting friend confirmation", it now says "add ________ as a friend".</p>
<p>Oh well.</p>