<p>This is just a cautionary tale for all those who have their heart set on an ivy.
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One day, at lunch, my friend and I were discussing the utter crap shooted-ness of getting into an ivy. As evidence we cited two of our close friends (they are both males so we will call them Friend A and Friend B). We started discussing how Friend A had applied to Brown, Harvard (ED but was deferred to RD), UChicago, Brown, and WashU after being deferred to RD for Harvard Friend A was lucky enough to be recruited by a swimming coach at Carleton College and was able to apply even though it was past due. Friend A was wait listed and rejected at all schools except Carleton. Now, Friend A was not a bad applicant. He had a 32 ACT (a bit low for the ivies, yes), had above average SAT subject tests (mid 700), had a 4.23 gpa (valedictorian of his class), was captain of the swim team 2 years and went to state every year of his HS career, volunteered like crazy, pres of NHS, student rep for district, boys state, actively involved in church. Had phenomenal essays written on the implications of being a twin. So on and so forth. As supplementary evidence, we cited Friend B: 2350 SAT, perfect subject SATs, 3.98 uw gpa, fluent in Latin, German and knew a bit of French, had an enormous amount of APs and college level classes. He was on academic and science teams, robotics club, volunteered, had done 2 college summer programs and even started a program to build libraries for inner city kids. Had good, sort of abstract essays. Rejected from Yale, Columbia, Harvard, Brown, Berkeley and Stanford.
These two friends are arguably the smartest people I know, and both had been rejected from all these ivies. It was astounding but wait! There's more. At this point, another friend chimes in, Friend C, he said "Yale is easy to get into."
I laughed and explained gently to this weed-smoking, sort of rude individual that Yale is an ivy with approx a 7% acceptance rate so no, it's not "easy".
Then to the surprise of the whole table he stated, "I got in. I bet you could too."
Friend C, pressured to apply by his father, got into Yale but turned it down for our state school with a 3.6 wgpa, 6 AP courses (got 4s and 5s and used this as his subject tests) and a 31 act. For ecs, he was on Knowledge bowl for 2 years, was in NHS and had a job which he openly hated. His essay was, as he put it, "some bull **** about accepting others." He claimed he just did very well on the interview. </p>
<p>So next time you feel like chancing someone on here for HYPS and other ivies remember this story and realize that whether you put safety, match, or reach next to that school's name: it won't make a difference.</p>