LOL about the lower back tattoo 
I will say though that one of the small things that made a positive impression for my daughter was when she went to check in for a summer program for rising HS seniors, an autonomous robot handed over her ID while the students monitoring the robot were singing along with “Hamilton.” When we were out of ear shot, she leaned over and said “I found my people.” Obviously could have happened at hundreds of school but it was the icing on the cake.