@fryingpan123 I’m going to cross-post my reply from your other thread here so others can find it if they happen on this thread over that one. I will say though your tone in this question is a little different than the one you had in the other. To be clear: Grinnellians put academics before hookups and, for the most part, before our social lives. We party, but you better bust your butt in class. Also, to be honest, we’re not the most conventionally attractive student body on the whole, but I happen to love those “weird” personalities. People are typically a little extra on that facebook page as compared to real life, but they’re still true to themselves. Just picture your class to be a little less out there, but the same content as what you’re seeing on the Facebook. Also keep in mind that there are a heck of a lot of people who are not as active on that and you may find your friends in those people.
Hey @fryingpan123 I’m a third year at Grinnell. Let me know if there is something in particular you are interested in learning about the campus, but I can tell you why I chose Grinnell. I’m from New York State and I didn’t know I wanted something like Grinnell in Iowa until I visited. I really feel for your position not being able to visit. It’s a hard decision to make cold, but know that I have TONS of international friends who had to make the decision cold and love it here. Two things made me choose Grinnell: the professors/classes and the students. Three additional things keep me here: the town, the events on campus, and alumni. Let me tell you about all of them! 
The Professors/Classes: When I visited for accepted students day on a windy day in April, 2017, we were directed to take one or two classes as a try-out. My first choice, Game Theory (Econ 300 level) had already been snatched up by other eager students, so I chose two others: GLS 291 - Perspectives in 20th-Century Central and Eastern European Literature and ECN 111 - Introduction to Economics. The GLS class was my first and I fell in love. Professor Todd P. Armstrong was teaching the class. I walked into a room of five current students and two fellow prospies (the affectionate term Grinnellians use for prospective students) around a small, oblong table. We proceeded to watch news reel from Czechoslovakia and talk about the implications of propaganda literature contrasted with underground anti communist artists’ and writers’ creative output. Professor Armstrong engaged the prospective students in the class just as much as the current students. I attended Intro Econ with Professor Chan, who is no longer at Grinnell, and the same participation was true of her class. I was lucky enough to hear another prospective student in the hallway after that class declare that she wanted to go get something to eat instead of going to Game Theory, so I jumped at the chance to take her attendance ticket. I attended all three classes and felt included and excited to participate in all of them despite lacking preparation. This has held true throughout my Grinnell experience and I have enjoyed classes with all the professors I sampled classes with since coming to Grinnell; they delivered on my expectations in every way. Notably stellar professors I’ve had in my time at Grinnell: Professor Sharron Quinsaat (Sociology), Professor John Garrison (English), Professor Mark Chamberland (Math), Professor William (Bill) Ferguson (Economics), and Professor Paul Hutchison (Education). Oh! Also Fredo Rivera (Art History) and Kelly Maynard (History). Top Classes of All Time: Sociology of Asian America, Policy Analysis, and Tyrants and Tunesmiths - Opera, Politics, and Society in Modern Europe.
The Students: When I first arrived - I loved the quirky-ness of the student body and consistently tell people that the number one reason I decided to come to Grinnell was the vast array of interests I saw confidently expressed in eloquent terms by my soon-to-be peers. In my class year there are students who are avid fly fishers, Shakespeare nerds, original musical composers, drag aficionados, YA literature reviewers, YouTubers, and mbira players. All of these people are unapologetically them and I wouldn’t have it any other way! Now - The community I grew up in was probably just right of center in political views and being placed in a student body that so clearly skews hard to the left has given me ample opportunities to grow in my understanding of the world of politicized communities. Yes, I got more liberal at Grinnell, but I also still hold some of my centrist views. Now though I have good reasons for believing the things I do and am able to back those beliefs up with sound judgments. Also, this campus straight up would not work without the students. There is so much student decision making about how our campus is run (some students may say we don’t have enough power, but we do have a voice and a history of influencing the administrative decision making at high levels). I feel really proud to be a part of that tradition of students caring about and putting in the work to create a college community in our own image.
The Town: OH MY GOD THE TOWN!!! I love exploring all the nooks and crannies of the town. Grinnell has like seven parks and my friends and I love to walk to them late at night to clear our heads and talk away from the four by eight block of grass that is our campus. There’s this old timey gas station called Candyland Station that has the best malt milkshakes and grilled cheeses with an old fashioned juke box in the corner to play tunes for a quarter. Frontier Cafe is THE student hotspot for breakfast Sunday mornings after you’ve slept off the revelry of Saturday night Harris Dances, Gardner Concerts, and High Street parties. Prairie Canary and Relish are upscale and perfect for date night (if that’s what you’re into) or birthday parties with your closest friends. Peace Tree has the best root beer (under 21s) and taps (over 21s). Finally, your time at Grinnell is not complete without seeing movies at the Strand. Even though we show blockbuster movies every weekend in the on-campus movie theater (I saw Baby Driver, Black Panther, The Big Sick, Knives Out, and Once Upon A Time in Hollywood on campus right after they came out), the Strand is another great way to get off campus, support local businesses, and have THE BEST popcorn. Also, if it floats your boat, almost every major Christian denomination has a church in town. My favorite place off campus: The Drake Community Library. Phonebank here for your local candidate, chill on the beanbags and read a book for fun, or explore all the poetry/prose written on the windows.
Campus Events: There are so many to choose from, so I’ll just choose some highlights… The National Theater and The MET Live Opera screen live in our movie theater on Saturdays, Titular Head (affectionatly known as Tit Head) is a raunchy student video submission festival celebrating life as a Grinnellian and all things spoof, QPOC (Queer Persons of Color)'s Drag Festival happens twice a year (once a semester) and I swear it is attended by ~800 students each time and profs even attend, The Grinnellian is a spring music festival on the quad with every Grinnell student band in existence performing and ample hammock/Frisbee game opportunities, Block Party is our end of the year party where we block off all of High Street to play drinking games and just other fun games, and THE IOWA CAUCUS which you are guaranteed to experience in your four years here. These are just some examples of LOTs of events including academic talks, social drinking events, and music events galore.