<p>To hmom:</p>
<p>If you think 4 years of extreme comfort is what I'm referring to, well, I'm sorry.</p>
<p>I am where I am because it had a lot of unique opportunities well-suited for me. In the end, I've chosen to do something with my life completely unforeseen 4 years ago that would have literally been an impossible transition elsewhere. The unique opportunities here, all of which directly related to why I felt I'd be happier at Brown, directly led to my now chosen path.</p>
<p>I think you are cheapening education a bit-- I'm taking more than a sheet of paper with me when I leave Brown and I know that shortly after my time here, the Brown part of my degree is not going to matter in the slightest-- my performance will. If I were going somewhere else I would not be as equipped to perform well. Motivation over the course of four years is not something you should assume from 18-21 year olds. Hardly anyone I know lacks the motivation to learn and improve themselves in school, but I do know people with greatly varying sense of efficacy. Being motivated to do well is only one side of the coin, believing you're somewhere where the effort and motivation will translate is equally important.</p>
<p>There have been study after study demonstrating that successful students are successful no matter where they go-- if you're capable of being successful and motivated somewhere you're unhappy, I applaud you. I'm not. For me, happiness = motivation. Striving for and being able to achieve goals = happiness. They're not separate.</p>
<p>I think that you're also pricing happy as a pretty shallow feeling if you think it's connected to physical notions like location, dorms, weather, and food.</p>
<p>None of those four things are as good where I am as it could have been many other places I could have gotten into. None of those four things are effecting my happiness.</p>
<p>Maybe you're assuming too much immaturity and I'm assuming too much maturity, but I would have been useless relative to who I am at say, BU versus Brown, but that fact has NOTHING to do with their respective rankings.</p>
<p>To the OP:</p>
<p>If you're thinking about math and science, this is particularly true. Research experience will end up trumping all else in these areas and if there is somewhere with the right opportunities for you to pursue these fields outside of the classroom where you think you'll shine, it becomes even more important I think to go there.</p>