<p>I've faced this dillemna a ton</p>
<p>In 10th grade (Plus I skipped a grade) I was lined up to take AP Calculus. But AP Calc isnt exactly meant to be taken by a 10th grader and it wouldn't fit in my schedule so I ended up taking AP Calculus A and B through Stanford's Distance Education Program and taking the Calc BC Test.</p>
<p>That year changed my life, basically self-teaching yourself Calculus is no fun, and it killed my social life completely.</p>
<p>The following year I combined Jr and Sr year taking double college english and social studies courses and I was loaded with essay after essay. I still graduated within the top 10 in a class two years older than me on unweighted GPAs (our valedictorian didn't take a single honors course). Did i mention I daily slept through a class or two?</p>
<p>Although I liked to blame my tiredness on studying, I spent a lot of time, working out, dating, wasting time, living life (not drinking mind you).</p>
<p>Here I am in Taiwan, free-er than ever to learn what I want, and this is what I have been waiting for all of my life. If I feel like learning physics I can set aside some time to head on over to MITs Open Courseware and watch their lectures. Learning Chinese is not only eye opening culturally but really fulfilling when you see the suprise on everyones faces when you respond to their english in chinese. And when I'm feeling artsy I can go play with my camera and flickr. I'm earning precisely 0 credit for it all.</p>
<p>I think these days Stats have become too much, and everyone is so similar. I think developing an ambition is should ultimately matter, even if it's just to learn everything possible. Ambition will lead you out of the norm, by definition. Ambition will carry you places much farther than HYPS ever directly could. (In 2004 only one CEO of a major companies went to an Ivy)</p>
<p>I dunno about you guys, but in the end I think I would be much happier feeling intellectually fulfilled in complete freedom, than I would be limiting my life to a strict curriculum only to go to HYPS. I'm not saying HYPS is pointless and I commend all you award winners and things because you really are bright. But these/those people are phenomoninal from birth at that sort of stuff. It's not natural for everyone, other things are though. Just don't sacrifice too much trying to become the concrete standard genius if it's not easy, it's not worth it.</p>
<p>It's not the college you go to that defines you, it's you, yourself, your motivations and ambitions.</p>